This question gets asked over and over again. Here’s the truth. Every girl is different. Circumstances are different. Moods are different. Preparation is different. Position is different. Some guys are patient and girl-centric, some are just about themselves. And every couple has a different reason for trying it, which may drive their eagerness and readiness.
Broad generalizations. The first time hurts. Initially it’s shocking or even excruciating, then just very uncomfortable and odd, even going slowly with lots of lube. More prep probably helps. It’s kinda like that the next couple times as well. This is why a lot of girls try it once or twice and never go back. But after that it starts to become pleasurable, totally different than vaginal as I later learned. It’s not something you always want, but it is something you sometimes crave. Yes, there are after effects and it can be messy and annoying. It is sore afterward too, sometimes into the next day. There’s an odd sensation that something’s been in there.
This is from very limited experience. I can’t speak for every girl but each time you ask this question I think you’re going to get different answers and hear different experiences. Whatever choices we make should be respected even if you guys don’t agree.
I actually like it but I have to want it and it has to be my desiscion because it's really not like "normal" sex. It's also important to be prepared if you don't want it to hurt.
Exactly I would never force a girl to allow me to do her up the ass , if she says No then that means No , I respect your decision , I knew there was a girl on here that liked it , I was getting bombarded by non anal fans lol
I have to admit, you kinda sounded like a guy who would only want to do anal and is like begging for it. Hahaha I'm sorry I'm glad it's not like that but that's probably why they act like that 🤷🏼♀️😅
I am sorry I came off that way to you but honestly No I am not , don’t get me wrong I don’t mind giving it it does feel good as hell but I am fine without it , I only do it to please her , My question is a legit question even though it sounds raunchy , I asked this question based off of experiences I have had with girls that allowed me to give them anal and then complained their butt hurt so I always had this question Mark on my head thinking then why in the hell did you let me get you up the ass lol , If I didn’t like something in bed I would tell the girl , I wouldn’t just let her do it to please her , if it doesn’t feel good it doesn’t feel good , Me personally wants to please her and have her come back for more , is the way I look at it , I don’t want to hurt her
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It hurts like a b*tch if you don't use lube! He might have though I was moaning, but really I was crying for help hahahah. At 12 I was in my longest relationship: 2 and a half years. The guy was 16 and we "LoVed" each other, but i felt too young to lose my virginity, so we were doing lots of anal and oral. Anal especially. Dang, it really hurt, especially cos we were young and didn't know about lubes, and also because he was PACKING already at 16... dang
Same I’ve cried before and it only made him go harder bc he thought I was moaning. That was horrible
it's kinda part of the experience lol
@swettannie yhh, It really is. You just gotta shut up and take it😝
No my butt is not made for all that. Its made for the vagina so thr baby can be made.
Never have been, and never will be remotely interested.
I couldn’t tell ya I’ve never been interested in trying it
Same lol I don’t mind giving it though
Nor me either.
Why is it that guys are so intrigued by it?
Definitely not my thing. Hurts like a mother fucker.
But you tried it at least lol
One of my exes “accidentally” put it in :/ not comfortable at all
I don’t think it was Ana accident he just said it was lol
You should try some anal on yourself then you would know for sure how it feels. I am betting most guys wouldn't be up for anal if they were on the receiving end.
I agree my ass is EXIT only lol
Same here.
That's actually not true. Male anus is connected to their prostate so it can be really pleasurable for some men. Women don't have it connected to anything with sensitive nerves so that's why it hurts a lot more.
Hmm no not into it
And I respect that , if a girl told me not to give her Anal I would be fine with it , it’s one of those things that is men like doing to her cuz we love the way her ass looks and we think she will enjoy it cuz we hear Girl’s say they like it up the ass , so it’s one of those things we just assume she will enjoy so we slide it in and pull her hair Lol but if she told me No anal I would respect her decision
Just where exactly do you hear girls saying this?
Party’s , bars, internet when girls get together for girls night out I have heard plenty of times a girl say she likes it up the ass. Just as long as he pulls her hair , so when I am having sex with a girl I just assume she will enjoy it , so I will attempt to slide it in , if she says no I respect her decision and don’t do it , but some girls haven’t stopped me but the I hear afterwards they they are in pain , and I think then why did you let me get you up the ass then?
I doi if it is part of a double penetration
No and no and no
Most don’t.
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