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Can too much sex and many girls get a man bored?

My 29 year-old brother got out of an unstable relationship last year (hasn't dated since) and his own words were ''Now I can go years without sex for all I care. I don't give a damn if she's pretty or not, I'm too busy for headaches''.

When he wasn't in a relationship, he would have casual sex with other girls. He's the type that can get another girl if he wanted to but wants to relax from drama and wasting his money and time. He dumped his girlfriend because she had no ambitions, kept cooking mediocre meals (he can cook too but she refused to learn) and kept expecting expensives gifts and dates. Then she wanted to get proposed. In other words, she wasn't putting anything to the table other than sex but wanted marriage... for no reason other than for the sake of getting married.

He said that if he gets into another relationship it better be good, that it better be a woman worth risking it all. He's willing to form a family with the right, ambitious girl.
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Superb Opinion

  • It isn't too much sex or too many women. For me when I get oversaturated with both I want something more stable because though the variety and freedom are quite nice, it's also pretty lonely having partners you can only rely on to get you off on a regular.

    He's probably just feeling bummed out and wanting to distance himself after that relationship broke up. Age plays a part in it too, the older you get, the less likely you are to find someone "better", the more crap you have to put up with, because all of the people you really want to hold onto... well, lots of others want those same things, and made babies with them already.

    Like looking at the dating pool now, as opposed to ten years ago I have no desire to go out and look for anything that doesn't just fall into my lap out of convenience. Putting in the effort is tough, especially when you know that you're going for the leftovers who view you as a compromise yourself.

Most Helpful Guy

  • He's not bored. He's injured. He somehow got hooked up with a gold digging lazy woman. It happens. When he gets horny enough, he'll find another.

    • He's been different since this year started. Now if he were to get into another relationship in the future, he's asking for an ambitious woman with life skills, that can cook good (he cooks good and expects the same) and isn't a useless, lazy woman.

    • Makes sense and give great head, too, no doubt. LOL

Most Helpful Girl


  • sure, when a glutton gets a smorgesbord of sex, how can he be satisfied with just one emtre?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I have NO idea, I’m not a man!

  • Yes, if he's getting his cake and eating it too, what's the motivation to change?

  • Yaaas!!! I am proud of that man!!! Hallelujah!!! I agree with him 100%. I owe this guy a drink!! 😄👍😎

    • Ever since this year started, he raised his standards for a woman. He's no longer accepting a woman that doesn't know basic life skills, that cooks poor meals and fails to learn (ex: serving undercooked or burned chicken breasts for years), that expects a guy to pay for all dates and that isn't working on her major, that doesn't progress as a person. He wants someone that inspires him, that will convince him that she's worthy of him taking the risk of proposing marriage to. So a pretty woman that's nice and faithful but has no other qualities (does nothing but waits for the guy to do everything) isn't good enough for him anymore.

    • If he doesn't meet that girl, then he said it himself that he has no issues enjoying his time walking to the park, doing other activities and continue being single and no sex.

    • I am taking the same initiative. My ex fiance cheated on me and went to india to get knocked up. Then she flaunted her baby at me saying i will never have a daughter. It threw me into a 2 yr depression and i did not want to live. But after years of trying to put myself back and working on myself i too am looking for a better woman. I wish him luck. Guys like us deserve a good woman.

  • Lmao no

    • Then I don't know what's up with him. He's talking like an old man that had a lot of fun and is bored.

  • No, I have good experiences with women.

  • No no

    • Not sure what's up with him. He's talking like he's disappointed or something. Right now he turned into a celibate by choice. He can already get a girl (he had his first girl when he was just 14) and has no problems. He doesn't want to though.

    • I hope it will be good, the sex should be lived very well

  • Obviously yes

  • Definitely not!
    But I I know how he feels. I was recently put in the friend zone by a girl so it’s hurts...
    in the end we need to keep moving on, we need to learn from past relationships and try new ones. There’s always a better girl somewhere out there, a nice girls that pray to God to find a guy like him.

    • His case is different than yours though. You were rejected by a girl you liked. My brother isn't dealing with rejection. He's the one not interested in girls he considers are useless with no life skills. He has gotten tough with his standards for a woman. If a girl can't take care of herself (cook good meals for instance) or doesn't know how to manage money, he doesn't want her.

  • That's my attitude after every relationship. I end up going back to needing a girl after a point.

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