Should guys let their mates do the foreplay?

As we know foreplay is often essential for good sex and many women can't orgasm unless they're well warmed up first. Surveys often show that women wish that guys spent longer on foreplay and a two minute finger twiddle isn't enough.

BUT there's a problem, get a guy too excited and he turns into a twopumpchump. Let's be honest, the real reason guys cut the foreplay short is they don't want to spray all over the bedding before having sex.

The solution is simple, sit down stairs having a cup of tea and a nice biscuit while someone else does the prep work.

Traditional sex = 5 mins foreplay + 2 mins sex + 20 mins apologising.

This method= 20min foreplay + 20 mins sex

What's not to like?
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  • I love smart people and I would definitely sign up for that but the whole thing with that is as I'm having the foreplay even though every touch or kiss is very hot and sensual to get her hotter my mind is having that tea and donut because I am American LOL until she is so red hot she can't take it anymore then I would have to start the sex to meanwhile feeling and seeing every single one of her emotions happen in front of me or with me doesn't mean my mind doesn't want to Second donut so basically what you're doing is giving guys hints on how to control their dick and quit getting so excited that it's happened so fast that it's over in 2 minutes are downstairs having tea and donuts well their girlfriend is upstairs pleasing to herself yeah I would sign up for that job I need a how do I tag team wrestling her boyfriend starts the match she throws him out with him two seconds tagout and then let the match begin see this is what happens when guys only think about themselves they want to conquer as fast as I can so nobody else gets that t or donut that is probably is no good anyway because it sat out on the counter for 2 minutes oh well where can I sign up

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  • What's not to like is your chump at back of the bike shed, sex ed class, here.

    Foreplay is art and a part of sex. It's not some paltry "warm up," and not everyone can get it right, or master it - not even some pornstars.

    One of my old sparring buddies would laugh that the difference between sex and rape, is the quality of the foreplay.

    If a guy is really up for it and likes you, the effort will show in the foreplay. If he just wants to use your cum dumpster for a quick deposit, now you know.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I like to do my own work, thank you very much. And I've never had the PE problem - if anything, lasting too long has been a problem for some girls, and I've had to learn to speed up.

    I find foreplay to be great fun...

  • Men today have so little self control. He can engage in foreplay and not cum but only if he values her happiness above his own.

  • Umm... The fact that my woman is being intimate with another man? Hell no. And before you ask, threesome is different.
    Not to mention that from practical point of view that wouldn't work... This first guy wouldn't just get up and leave after 20 min of turning you on! xD

  • This is where 3 somes come in to their own.

    let the girls go upstairs have some fun, watch the end of the first of of the rugby.

    Pop upstairs do your thing, then pop back dow for 2nd half.

    sorted

  • @purplepoppy OMG, you are SOOOOO FCKING FULL OF SHIT!! You are completely wrong, and even SEXIST, in that post!!
    Maybe you don't get the foreplay you want, because YOU DON'T TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT!!
    Men DO NOT READ MINDS!!
    This one is all on you, and don't just blame the guy!!!
    Get "too excited" BULLSHIT!!!

  • I used to jerk off in the shower before I went on a date.

  • Nice idea. Who is doing the prep work?

  • Always the problem solver!
    You should get a job in government...😉

  • I would happily help warm a girl up for my mate and as I am not a two pump chump I give a lot of foreplay to my ladies

  • I think you're leaving towards trying a gangbang. Cuz I'm pretty sure the mate wouldn't want to leave with blue balls after foreplay.
    What i do is ik I won't last very long with too much foreplay so I just quickly cum the first time. It takes me longer to reach the second orgasm and I'm able to maintain my erection so I use that advantage. So I usually last 5+15mins of pounding (assuming we stop at two orgasms)
    I agree it might be harder for older men to do the same. But there's viagra to solve that for them.

  • that's called a fluffer

  • I don't know what guys you've been seeing but I know I can do 30 minutes of foreplay and about 2 hours of sex. I probably could go longer but Im old and I do get tired

  • I like at least a half-hour warming her up, then 20 minutes or so of licking her pussy and making her cum several times before she begs me to fuck her.

  • Crazy idea, in my opinion.

  • Lol i can out last 20 mins during sex and i love foreplay.

  • The girl should get warmed up and orgasmed by another girl before the boyfriend, she'll be really wet and loosened up for him, so he doesn't have to bother with ringing the devil's doorbell at all, just slip in straight away,,,

  • Foreplay is essential to great sex, I usually make sure my partner orgasms two or three times before I even think about my pleasure.

  • I love foreplay

  • I am sorry you feel this way. My priority is to satisfy the woman. Foreplay for the win. I'm a give and receive type.

  • Opposite, right? Chicks need the foreplay on them to warm em up.

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