Have you ever have people hitting on you either too young or too old for you?

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I hate it when it happens, it’s good some 14 to 17 years old don’t hit on me but it’s freaky when a much older guy hits on me especially when he’s married. I don’t wanna be anybody’s mistress ok I don’t care if you filthy rich or broke but I rather stay single than be someone’s mistress or side chick. It’s weird if much younger guys hit on me because some young guys think older ladies are hot. Like for example a 15 year old is attracted to a 23 year old like... ok... when I was 14 I’m attracted to 15 years old to 17 years old. But as I grow older I’m more attracted to guys 2 to 7 years older than me since most guys here same age as me are not mature enough for my liking. A mature mindset is what I’m attracted to and I’m not attracted to men with a boy’s mindset. There are some guys who are more mature than their age but that’s hard to find

Andres77 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I was 10 to 14 I was being hit on by old men on the paper route, teachers at school, older students at school.
Makes you feel gross all day and wonder what you did to deserve this it and not want to be there anymore... until in each case I did something about it.
Confront them, tell someone because if I wasn't powerful enough to make them stop someone else could.

But I'm a guy and I got bigger and scary when I wanted to and noone has done that to me since. Just being big doesn't stop a group of those fuckers though. A cousin was gangraped by guys when he was 12.
My brother was kidnapped and if he didn't carry a knife everywhere he might not be alive today. He stabbed one dude in the chest and ran for his life.
And girls, you can't get big and scary... you gotta deal with that shit your whole life and it sucks.

And I rambled again... sorry...

summiter · Accepted Answer

We all have different values... I agree with your comments.

OlderThanILook · Answer

Nope. Nobody hits on me unless it's a joke or some weird fetish thing.

chriscdi · Answer

yes.

derdepedie301 · Answer

i like my own age 19 years old

Meldrum · Answer

Well, I'm one of those "old guys" but to be honest, we'd have little in common. I'd have to lose 50 or so years just to understand some of what those 20 somethings come up with. Now if you don't look at me as some pedophile looking to get laid, just an old guy with a few more experiences than you, we might actually be able to have an intelligent conversation.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Anon is a very mature mindset.

Benja35 · Answer

To me age is just a number... have to be over 21 of course.. but I have had girlfriend of different ages. Seems like they all have had different interests and something to offer