Delayed ejaculation help?

[Anonymous]

So I'm starting out this new relationship and I'm getting confused. I can't seem to help him finish in bed. And he is not what I'm used to. I was his first and we have only been together twice. I'm trying to keep him not nervous but it is hard. And after a few positions gives up cuz it's a lot of work and he can't seem to get close to finishing. he's about 4 in and I'm wondering if that is a factor and I need to change up methods. My last relationship was highly sexual and always quick.
I need any advice on this as I really want to help him. I asked any questions I could do to help and he says he is too new to know anything. He is also very vanilla. Advice?

[summiter]

I am sure he is way nervous. Try more foreplay and even start out with a handjob (guys love them) and get him close to an orgasm then have him enter you.

Is he jerking off too much when you are not around? Do you finish him by hand if he has trouble finishing?

[Femdom_Society]

Males should always cum second and only when the woman is fully satisfied.
Can he cum without being inside you? Have you sucked him or milked him? Presumably, he can cum by masturbating. Get him to do it while you watch. Suck his balls or finger his anus at the same time.

[awanti95]

Why you are interested in fast ejcu it's good for you if he is last longer

[Asker]

It's getting to the point where he is exhausted and wants to cum but can't. He is not happy

[awanti95]

Even long drive or

[MillenniumBill]

Try ED vitamins. They're over the counter.
Also have him excercise more. It builds testosterone.

[Asker]

This is really good advice. I'm thinking it would also help keep our sex going instead of getting tired in the middle

[MillenniumBill]

Hope it helps. Good luck.

[Wise4myage]

You probably aren't doing anything wrong, he just isn't a fast finisher and most women are ok with that.

[Asker]

I am okay with it... he doesn't even have to finish. I think I need to make him see it's not a necessary thing and he's great in bed even if it takes longer. Maybe ease some anxiety

[Wise4myage]

Ahh I see. Have you told him this?

[Asker]

I have but he doesn't seem convinced. I'm going to try to work on that part and really let him know. Even if I have to lots of times.

[Wise4myage]

Great idea and I hope it works. If it doesn't work, then maybe he needs to talk to doctor.

[Meldrum]

4 inches is just as effective as 8. It's not the size, it how you use it. Start off with a handjob with some mouth work and see if he ejaculates that way. Then a full-on blowjob to see if he cums. Be careful if you don't swallow. He is inexperienced and may not know when he'll explode. Once you've determined he CAN cum, then try some different positions that might stimulate him and loosen him um a bit.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Ok, so you post anon but base your problem on him being very vanilla? This is not your problem.

[Asker]

I'm a little confused...

[CuriousMufuxka]

You don't want to help him, you just want him to cum without putting work in yourself. Try some reverse cowgirl.

[Asker]

Oooh so I've tried riding him lots. I'll try reverse tho!

[mr2inches]

Size doesn't matter. I'm smaller than that and I cum very fast

[Asker]

That helps what am I doing wrong then?

[mr2inches]

Some men just have trouble finishing. Probably not you. I'm sure you are doing everything fine