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Weird question related to foreplay, pl tell me?

So, while sexting my boyfriend told me that he wants me in doggystyle and lick my butt (ew) and do the main stuff of course (vagina part). But isn't this butt stuff a bit weird? I mean I'm not saying that I'm dirty!! I clean myself a lot but butts are bound to smell aren't they? I mean i don't know. I've just had sex once. I'm new to this. But i really think, thats not a good idea, this doggystyle+ foreplay idea makes me very self-conscious, i mean his nose is gonna be near my butt !! Its embarrassing!!! What should i do , cause this is gonna happen someday i can't avoid it always, right? Or is it that butts dont smell? I mean i don't know!! I'm so confused!!! Sorry for weird question. I have doubts cause I'm new to all these.
(P. s-I also have hemorroids) *me: dies out of embarrassment*
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  • I personally don’t do it. It doesn’t have to be inevitable. I know a lot of people do and it’s completely normal. Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable. You are really new to sex and this sounds pretty kinky for being that fresh.


    As far as the hemorrhoids, been there. I hear ya on that. My man truly doesn’t mind. But he’s never asked to lick them either.

    • He doesn't know i have hemorrhoids... But if he sees he probably won't ask again either lol

    • It’s possible. He’s going to see them if you do doggy.

    • Oh goddd this is gonna be so embarrassing.

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  • First and foremost, don't do anything that you are not comfortable doing. In time, you will find that you are comfortable doing things that you didn't do at first. Such as doggy style. Though many people like to have anal sex and some lick assholes, I have never seen anything that makes we want to do it. Yes, the asshole tends to smell, and there is shit just inside, in the colon. Sticking his dick in you gets shit on his penis or on the condom, it's messy and it smells.

  • No ass play unless you just got out of the shower and paid extra attention to cleaning your asshole and a little inside thoroughly.
    But once a guy slides a finger/dick in I gotta clean it before he touches ur pussy again.

    Ass can be fun but if you do it wrong you can both get sick and you can get a horribly pain vaginal infection/UTI.

    Educate before you play in the spare room.

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  • Id think it would smell, unless you wash it soon before, but maybe thats the turn on, are you too embarrassed to let him do that, or are you comfortable enough with him. I dont really get turned on by that, but I've heard of much weirder things.

  • I'm not into it either, i would rather have a nice clean dick lol

  • I agree with you. I also think it's weird.
    Now, whether you want him to do that to you or not is entirely your choice. But if you don't like it, tell him no. He must respect your decision.

  • Let him try it, you will be amazed at how good it feels. Just make sure you take a shower before you do it. If you don't like it, then don't let him do it again.

    • Okay so I've to shower first right. Okay. Thanks

    • You're welcome. :)

  • Your butt won't smell if you wash it well. If he likes to lick it, let him. You may enjoy it. This happens in tons of relationships.

  • Tell your boyfriend you are not comfortable with anything relating to your ass. He's seen it on porn and thinks it's just the kink he wants. He has no idea why it's done.

  • Well many like it. But im with you hell no. Im not into it. A reason why im not gay. I do not like butts or womens for that matter.

  • I love licking butt

    • Whyyyy!! Doesn't it smell n all? And licking!! Its gross!! Don't u think?

    • No a womans ass is very delicious lol

  • Anything anal is disgusting and homosexual.
    Nature gave that to you for removing waste. It’s not a sexual object!

  • hahha.. ok funny this was... you really asking if butts dont smell, stick a finger there and smell it :D
    but yes.. it is disgusting.. they are made for one purpose and thats shitting, well and farting, so yeah... do it at your own perill.

  • Okay you should be honest and say no because of the hemorrhoids but besides that don’t worry about it

    When I’m fucking my girlfriend in doggystyle I sometimes stop to give her butthole and cheeks a licking she was kinda awkward about it at first but now she just laughs

    • Okay so how to say no in middle of sex? Anyways ill try to talk to him about it before. Its gonna be embarrassing but okay, ill try. X (

    • And try not to ask him why he likes it because I’m sure he doesn’t know no guy knows why we just love women’s asses we just do

    • Okay. I'll just say no to it.

  • He wants to eat those groceries😂 a lot of people are doing that now and I bet you love it

  • I have the same doubt. Do you get shit on your dick when you have anal? Isn't it nasty? I can't even imagine licking a shit hole

    • Yea me too. Like! Why ! do guys even want to try it? Right?

    • I would never try it. Don't know if my mind will change later. Do you want you asshole to be fucked? Would you play with your boyfriend's asshole?

    • Noo not at all

  • A lot of men, myself included, are into this. I'd say the majority probably are.

    Remember that men are visual, and seeing flesh and skin of intimate parts up close is really the ultimate turn on. Just be clean, and don't pressure yourself too much ;) We're easy to please I promise

    • Then its going to be absolutely weird and i think i won't be able to avoid it , i can already guess that. Thanks for the motivation by the way!!

    • Oh don't be afraid to say "no"! I've been with lots of women that put the brakes on different sexual acts, but allowed other ones. girlfriend 1 let me do it, but didn't like porn. girlfriend 2 allowed porn, but no 69, girlfriend 3 Allowed threesomes, but was totally vanilla. You're allowed to express what you want and don't want :)

    • Oh okay so ill tell him 'no butts'

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  • Pore some honey 🍯

    • Whatt. Why. Ew. So sticky.

    • Far better feeling

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