Thanks for your point of view. I would feel the same about declining too.
I could be considered traditional and the best way to go about it is to communicate with the people that you are planning to invite into your bedroom. I am both serious about consent and I'm into girls who want me almost exclusively. I'm looking for signs and body language but the sexiest quality a girl can have is being upfront about what she wants and wanting me is a huge turn on. The last thing I want to do is chase a lost cause. I've been down that path and wouldn't want to put that anxiety on anyone. Uncertainty is worse than rejection. Red flag and borderline deal-breaker
Thanks. This is what I thought too.
I'm glad you did, a lot of women don't.
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