Do guys like sexually confident or shy girls?

Do guys like sexually confident or shy girls?
Sexually Confident
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Do guys like sexually confident or shy girls?
Sexually shy and less confident
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I am sexually confident one😊
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Superb Opinion

  • For short term I prefer more aggressive, for long term it really doesn't matter as long as they're a masochist. I've met shy, demure masochists, and very eager confident masochists, so that one is kind of a non-issue there, both of them end up in sub-space after a few careful minutes, fully under my control and direction after a couple times, so meh, however the scene starts doesn't matter so much if I know how the middle and ending every time.

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  • For me it depends on the length of the relationship. I like it when a girl is a bit shy and less confident, only to grow bolder and more confident as the relationship grows. It's a different type of intimacy that I very much appreciate. Good communication and no judgement is the key there.

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What Guys Said

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  • Both!

  • I suppose sexually confident but "true confidence", not like someone flaunting it but comfortable with sexuality. Like there is some practical level of modesty there. Actually I think confidence and modesty are somewhat compatible but turbulent ideas.

  • In bed definitely confident. In the streets I like her to be kind of shy.

  • I can enjoy a confident woman but I can also enjoy getting a shy woman to come out of her shell.

  • Confident, independent wins hands down.

  • I like it when a girl I'm with is a little bit sexually shy but also confident about enjoying sexual pleasure

  • I think a shy girl is more fun to play with... as long as she is open to trying things.

    • I've always seen shy girls as more naturally submissive.

  • Both

  • for me both are fine because i like women as individuals. if they are a good girl or a super slut makes no diference

  • Different guys like different things

    • Want to see the majority

    • You won't get a majority tho as more Conservative guys tend to want a shy women and more Liberal guys tend to want a sexualy confident women with give and take

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