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Why do I hate men?

Hear me out! I’ve loved lots of men and get love in return but for some reason I always find myself so hurt by their actions that I have all this hate in me towards them. I feel deep inside that they are pigs, they only want sex, watch porn and would F anything with a butt and boobs... and I’ve had this thought with every man I’ve been with, so obviously it’s me. I feel like deep down I have hate towards them all, just for hurting me or making me feel jealous or insecure... I tend to feel jealous or insecure and then enjoy seeing them suffer by arguing or fighting with them and not until I see them cry or hurt I start to feel bad about it. It’s like revenge for hurting me. It’s pretty messed up.
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Superb Opinion

  • You identify men as being the source of your biggest problems, or at least the cause of most of your pain, so it's natural that you would feel less than favourable towards men. It's a bit like if your only experiences of fire were getting burned by it. You haven't had the chance to see how fire can be good and how you can better control the outcomes of your experiences with fire.

    Men aren't all evil and we aren't all dogs. We get a bad press thanks to those that are, and of course we all make mistakes and bad decisions because we're human. You can guarantee that for every girl who has been hurt by a guy there is a guy who has been hurt by a girl. It doesn't do you any favours to lose perspective and to condemn all men as evil. For one thing, you have to share the planet with us so you need to find a way to live with us at the very least.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sounds like you're already on the path to healing... you understand that the hate is bad for you and not fair to all men (did I get that right?).
    Now you could use a little guidance in putting those feelings in healthy context and controlling them better... therapist could be a lot of help.

    I hope you find what you need.
    🙏

Most Helpful Girl

  • Not messed. Let's think like this. The watermelon I bought because I thought it was sweet and delicious might not taste what I expected. Or I may not be satisfied with the car I bought because it was comfortable and safe. What did they gain/teach me? Expectations may not be. May not every watermelon tastes good. I have to approach watermelons more carefully. I have to be patient and logical when choosing watermelons. I know very well which brand of my next car will not be. And that way I will find the safest car that will save my life.

    Why do I hate men?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Can you get some counseling to talk through this? People who are repeatedly hurt in relationships tend to have poor judgment or boundaries. They give too much too soon then feel cheated when the other person doesn't reciprocate, or they accept behavior that others would find unacceptable.

  • Sounds like you haven’t recovered from the hurt

  • So you were hurt by men YOU chose, And in turn you are hating all men.. Sounds like you need some therapy because most men are not like that.

  • I am sorry for you bad experiences, but "all men" are not to blame for the evil some did to you.

  • Do you hate me why? i didn do anthing,.

  • You have such hate for men because of how previous men treated you and hurt you. Not all men are disrespectful pigs. There are men out there that respect women and treat them like queens.

  • It's just bad people. I've made bad choices when it came to my previous partners. Women can be just as dishonest, selfish, devious. I've just learnt to keep at arms length.

  • Because of your experience

  • If the guys you fuck are around your age, I understand. They are immature.
    Guys more mature and older, know how to treat a woman.

  • The fact that you realise it is a good thing. Now, think about when it started. If you want, you can talk to me about it and I'll help you.

  • It's ok to hate men. I hate women. not all of them or even most of them but they know who they are. Damn bitch ass bitches

  • Talk to other girls; do they feel the same?
    Some girls just like being brought-to-book by strong men.
    Is this your way of getting it?
    Are your expectations too high?
    Attracting the wrong type of guys or sending out the wrong signals?

  • At least you know you have a problem, not all of us are like what you say

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