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Why do some guys think sending porn pics and asking sex questions is the way to talk to girls?

Obviously I had some creeps online doing that on dating sites. Why would any guy think that's a way to get a girl (who never even met you in person... just online) interested?

Is this a serious case of blue balls? If I'm getting to know you, why would you make it so obvious by telling me your desperation for sex?
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Why would they have the nerve to send me their pic of their penis or other porn pics or ask me to get naked? That's not the way to talk to girls.
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  • I mean , i use to that when i was like 14 15 , i know i had my issues, apart for the dick pics and i feel like i wasn't has bad has you say , but like i think itsnjuste because i had no experience and i thought i funnynlr whatever, it was really imature for sure, but i mean past that age i think there might just be somthing wrong

    • Those guys were ages 25 and over. Even a 48 year-old did that.

Most Helpful Guy

  • These guys are either ignorant and immature, or are fishing for the girls who will bite on their fishing hooks, and get in their pants.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Porn can create an unrealistic example. I’m sorry that happened to you. If it’s someone you think you could click with, take the time to educate them about what is appropriate and what isn’t.

  • They don't actually care about talking to these women. They're just casting their line hoping they get a bite.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Immature plus monkey brain. Nothing else to it.

  • Apparently, they believe that showing you they are sexually aggressive will make them attractive to you and will keep them out of the friendzone.

    • It ends of backfiring and they get put on blockzone.

  • No clue

  • I don't know. I don't ever do that.

  • Because they have no social skills.

  • On dating sites that’s not the move😂

  • Because they are arrogant pricks who think that women should be dominated.

  • Because they have no experience talking to girls. They need to get out more, and earn to talk to people appropriately.

    Simples...

  • Unfortunately they encounter some girls who respond well to that attention and train them to think they can repeat it with all girls.

    • They are probably girls that also got problems. I think they're sex addicts just like those guys. I don't find that normal behavior.

    • I also don’t find it the norm, but it is one reason guys seem to think it’s ok to do

  • It is; it's all about the timing. Most guys have terrible timing

    • Definitely super terrible. With a couple, it was only my first online chat and they already brought up the sex thing. The others brought it up already (plus a pic of his penis) on the 2nd chat. They got blocked immediately.

    • I don't blame you

  • That just tells me they are immature and desperate.

  • Yeah women never like vulgar sexual things. Obviously you have to talk to them like children or easily offended visitors from a far away land.

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