Girls what makes you give the guy a blowjob and what makes you not to give the guy a blowjob?

[scott04sa22]

First time I had sex was twice in 2003 and it was first and last time I had sex for a very long time until 2017 came around so from late 2003 until early 2017 I didn't had anymore sex for 14 years and reasons why I just couldn't find anybody. I did had a few offers but didn't felt right at the time. For 14 years I didn't had any or never had a single woman offer me a blowjob but it's possible I might of been offered it but couldn't take any hints.

[NaughtyByNature719]

What makes me give is he goes down on me first and he won't get if he didn't shave that thing,

[scott04sa22]

Guys are not good with hints and im one of them

[NaughtyByNature719]

It won't be a hint I say it up straight. I don't go down unless you go down first.

[scott04sa22]

Like he gives you oral first before you give it to him too?

[NaughtyByNature719]

That's what I said. If he doesn't go down then i don't go down.

[scott04sa22]

Oh ok. The girls where I'm from don't do that here. The girls here are very picky on who they give or offer it to.

[JessieBellll]

If I am attracted to him and if I am not?

[loves2learn]

Things got hot and heavy. He went down on me, I went down on him. Neither of us “offered” it just happened in the moment.

[scott04sa22]

What do you mean? Some guys can't take hints or get the hint from a woman.

[loves2learn]

I guess I don’t understand your question. I was making out with him and it just happened naturally.

[loves2learn]

@scott04sa22 where do you live?

[scott04sa22]

I see

[scott04sa22]

Indiana

[loves2learn]

I’m also from the Midwest. Do you think you miss signals that women are interested in you? It’s highly unlikely she’s just going to offer you a blow job. There has to be a connection and chemistry first.

[scott04sa22]

The women here are very picky on how they choose their man until I a ran into my friends with benefits.

[KatherineJ]

I do it because it’s fun and it makes him happy.

[scott04sa22]

Some reason my women loves giving me blowjobs first before we have sex.

[loves2learn]

I do that too. It’s part of the foreplay. Gets you both warmed up.

[KatherineJ]

@loves2learn that and I like his penis

[scott04sa22]

@KatherineJ I know this sounds crazy and awkward but how do I know if my woman like my penis. There was days she sucks my cock so good and intense. Sometimes she'll suck on it a little bit longer before I put it in her pussy.

[KatherineJ]

Ask her.

[scott04sa22]

Ok. I'll see her on Monday so I'll ask her then

[Anonymous]

Every time me and my boyfriend get in the mood I start off with a bj. I dont mind it cause one that's Mine and two I want to make my man feel good and to want me, sometimes I get a little carried away and he finishes in my mouth and then he goes down on me. But maybe try some flavored lube or some throat numbing spray, that has been fun for us and has helped me with swallowing his load sometimes

[scott04sa22]

When you start giving blowjobs didn't you start without swallowing or didn't allow them on loading their cum in your mouth?

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on the mood really. Like if I don't feel like having sex but want to make him happy then I'll finish him off but if I want to have a good time too then just wait til he's kinda close and let him finish inside me.

[scott04sa22]

Ok. That not quite I was asking for because my girl doesn't like people finishing in her mouth. I haven't had a only Blowjob session with my girl yet! I'm not sure what to do when I'm about to start cumming because I'm not sure how she wants me to finish.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe talk to her about it. See if she would at least let you try, the first time I swallowed it was deep in the back of my throat and I didn't taste much, there's been times in the past where I've spit cause the texture or taste, diet is a major role in how your cum taste... maybe start with like "oh man babe your head almost made me bust in your mouth, what if I did? I really would like to try it sometime"... something like that.. I don't know

[scott04sa22]

No means No from all girls and thats exactly what she's going to say when I asked her about that. She has did anal sex before but she's never gonna let me have anal sex with her! ever! Her backdoor is only for someone she feels very very special to her. There's NO WAY I can show her that! She doesn't even realize I can treat her a lot better then her ex's did : (

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe find someone else that you can fully satisfy and they can fully satisfy you

[scott04sa22]

90% of girls where I'm from don't like anal sex and the girls here don't like man cumming in their mouths. Finding girls who likes anal sex and cummings in their mouths are very rare here. I'm stuck on what I got.

[scott04sa22]

Also i can't have romantic relationships because I don't drive and I won't be able to.

[Opinion Owner]

Where did anal come from in this conversation, if she's not comfortable with the things you want then I guess you gotta settle with what you got, either talk to her and compromise or cut her loose if she doesn't fully satisfy you.

[scott04sa22]

I'm just telling you what I'm dealing with. If I cut her loose and find another girl. The new girl is still going to have the same sexual preferences like the girl I'm seeing right now. Also the girl I'm seeing took me over 20 years to find the right girl I'm looking for like the one i got right now and I'm not going to spend another 20 years on finding someone almost like her. So not worth it.