First Time Anal - Could I Still Get Pregnant?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I tried anal with a guy 3 days after my period/menstrual cycle ended (March 5th). He wore a condom, used spermicide lubricant, and he claims to have had a vasectomy (but he doesn't have any proof/documentation, so I went under the assumption that he could still be fertile).

He did not slip out during the act, but when he finished up, and pulled out, the condom stayed behind (which panicked me, not gonna lie, but he took it out very carefully). He helped clean me up with baby wipes as well, since I was thoroughly embarassed.

My next cycle doesn't start (according to my tracker) until the 29th, and honestly I'm scared that I could still get pregnant somehow. Having to wait this long until my next cycle to see if I miss it has lead to 2 panic attacks so far, and lots of crying on my part. He also hasn't been messaging me back very much since the act (first, he said it was because he was sick, and just yesterday he said he had "bad family stuff" that was going to "keep [him] preoccupied.")...

It feels like he was just using me for sex (when we both started dating knowing that we each wanted something serious), and that has only added to my stress about this experience...

I guess I just need some reassurance here.. I really do not want to be put in an accidental pregnancy-type of situation...

[Twalli]

I have a higher chance of winning the lottery 3 times in a row than you do of getting pregnant from that. FYI, I have a higher likliehood of being struck by lightning twice every day for a year than winning the lottery once.

[LiamSawyer]

I highly doubt you got fertilized. If chatting about it for a bit would help you, please feel free to message me.

[Asker]

Actually, that might be helpful for me, I hope you don't mind if I do~

[LiamSawyer]

Not at all.

[Asker]

Damn, being a new user, I can't message you at my level. Thank you for the offer though, it's much appreciated~

[LiamSawyer]

Yes you can, try it.

[LiamSawyer]

Go to my profile and click on message.

[Asker]

I did, and it said I couldn't send messages until I was at least Xper 2+ (level 2 and higher)

[LiamSawyer]

It's not usually like that, try following me.

[Asker]

Still didn't work lol. Really, it's fine, don't worry about it~

[LiamSawyer]

No problem, if you really want to chat some time, you'll be able to make it work.

[amadimal]

Chances to get pregnant in this scenario are close to 0.

[purplepoppy]

Relax you're not pregnant.

[slatyb]

You can't get pregnant from anal sex.

[bowenw]

It seems unlikely you are pregnant, but take a test or see your doctor to be sure.

[TheFlak38]

yes be careful

[dudeinohio]

You cannot get pregnant from anal sex no way.

[In_Trance]

I sure hope you don't. This is gnarly

[Luckycharms12]

If you had anal then no unless he cum in your pussy you are fine

[msc545]

You cannot get pregnant from anal sex.

[Cicero79]

You should not be ovulating 3 days after your period.

[Jmmmfi4]

To the best of my knowledge your ovaries aren't connected to your anus. You're fine.

[Tartersaucefish]

Yes you can due to drip down. Men use the excuse that’s it’s birth control just to get their gfs and wives to do something they don’t want to.

[Anonymous]

You mention anal in your titles but nowhere in your question so just to be sure, when you say he finished inside you and the condom stayed behind, you mean in your ass and not your vagina, correct? If so, then you have noting to worry about. The odds of you becoming pregnant from that are extremely slim.

[Anonymous]

You can't get pregnant from anal sex, though theoretically, I suppose you could make an argument that the ejaculate could drip down to the pussy. But even then, pregnancy would be extremely unlikely.