Would you be disgusted if you found out your mom or your sister is a prostitute?

Question

My sister blurted out yesterday she used to be a sex worker and when I confronted my mom about it, she said "oh its just a joke", but I vividly remember my sister working at a skate shop and only bringing in 40 per week. But she always had hundreds of dollars and she always came home around 3am, so it all makes sense now. She also said "With threesomes you dont have to have sex with the other girl only the guy" which I found is REALLY WEIRD to say out of the blue.

I grew up in a catholic household and my mom literally turns a blind eye to what my sister is doing, so its fucking up my value system because now I'm like, has everything I ever learned a lie?

My sister has herpes- gives it to guys on purpose, has borderline personality disorder, searches random guys on tinder to be her baby father, got knocked up 2 weeks into meeting this guy and SMOKED her entire pregnancy, calls the police makes fake police reports, had an abortion and laughed about it, bring random men into our home she meets online and screws them in my moms room. She finally moved out last year but she is always here with her baby asking my mom to help raise her.

I don't have enough money to move out. But am I over reacting or is she just truly a shitty disgusting person that I shouldn't have any contact with?

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Your sister may have BPD or she may be a schizophrenic. Whatever her diagnosis, she is clearly a very bad person and you should minimize your contact with her.

If someone said my mother or sister was a prostitute, I would laugh. My mom is 90 years old! And my sister is an obnoxious 72 year old heifer! If she depended on whore money to support herself, she wouldn't have a chance!

msc545 · Accepted Answer

Women with BPD are dangerous as hell. Stay away from her as much as possible.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This sounds like the kind of thing Cheergirl would make up.

AndyOh · Answer

To answer your question, no I would not be disgusted if my sister or mom was a prostitute.
However, the way your sister is, I would be disgusted with her. Obviously a woman who is really kind of a low-life. So I agree with you there.

shushhhhh · Answer

Your sister is the definition of avoiding accountability

Miristheiss · Answer

Yes, I would be disgusted.  I probably wouldn't want to go on with an adult/friendship relationship with her but rather, ok you've raised me, we are done now. Have a nice life... bye.

Avicenna · Answer

Of course I’d be disgusted

SngBirdy · Answer

Yes, i would be very disgusted despite the fact i love my sister a lot. I despise sexwork with all my guts

exitseven · Answer

You don't get to choose your family. You can look at her life however and do the opposite.

hellacray · Answer

Haha if my mom was a prostitute I would ask her where's the money?  She's clearly not spending it on herself or the house so I want to know what she's doing with it.

shade_19 · Answer

Ya she seems kinda shitty
But seems more kind of a person who is forced or say had no better option
Anyways I'd say be in contact with her... depending on ur wish or not..
But umm... if she was a prostitute.. then why was she...(money needs or just for fun)
And what is she doing now? A real job or the same shit
Sometimes it's not only the action that the person is doing but also intentions and circumstances to be taken in consideration

AmeerX · Answer

Well, I can't judge people. It is wrong but there are other problems which a rampant in the society like corruption

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Wow.

SirJohn42 · Answer

I think sister is pure evil. Giving guys herpes is a serious thing slso entramping them is even worse. Id get out of the house as quick as possible.

Addictedcoomer69 · Answer

Depends on if I get a family discount.

OddBeMe · Answer

Yeah... just because it’s about sex. Not because of the job.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Don't know how id feel wish they come to me if they had money problems or anything

Valnac · Answer

That’s disgusting and you need to get outa there.

AFellowWeeb · Answer

i suggest you to start making money asap and find your own place, your family is nuts, and not in a good way. Be careful tho, cause after getting your own house, your sister will try to go live with you. After getting my own house, if i were you, and already with stabble income, i wouldn't accept her in my house, but i would offer her help or maybe consider to pay her therapy sessions.