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Were my nudes bad? Why does he keep texting me but never asks for more pics?

Meet this guy only. After a few weeks chatting we exchanged nudes. I sent some old photos and he send videos back. After that the conversation kept going, I stopped texting for two days and he reached out asking about my day. We basically chat day in day out about the same shit always how's the day, what are the plans for the day and stuff like that. He is pretty dry but not dry dry you know? I thought he was keeping me around for when he's horny but he has been horny and didn't ask for nudes in fact I sent one without him asking and he said "you're so attractive" like wtf? Then one time I was horny but he was at work he said "aw hope I'm around next time" next time never came.

So why exactly is he always texting me if the conversations are not that juicy - I basically carry them telling him about the weird shit that happens throughout the day and he reacts to them. Like what's his intentions?
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  • What reactions were you expecting or wanting from him? Like, what do you want him to do? Have you done anything like asked him for more either? My point here is that I think you're just thinking about this too much and he won't be analyzing this that deeply at all. He enjoyed your pics. My guess is he's not asking for more because like the one guy has said, he's being respectful and doesn't want you to get the wrong idea about him (ie "horn dog" that only wants sex). My guess is he actually likes you as well. My suggestion as far as "intentions" go (which maybe he doesn't have any yet and just getting to know you?), is ASK him what they are. "What are you looking for?" And tell him what you are wanting this relationship to be or become as well. Then not only do you know, but so does he and you're both on the same page. Bottom line, communication! Don't make assumptions and let your mind wonder. Don't forget that he sent you nudes as well, so do you not think that maybe he has some feelings/thought about you seeing him as well (and I'm guessing you've had no "reaction" either right? You're worried about what he thinks, and he's worried about what you think of him). That's my guess here. He very well might be having all these same thoughts and feelings about you. But you're still talking, so he's obviously still interested. Now just talk to him and make sure you're on the same page. If nothing else, you'll get answers to these questions you have.

    • And another thought, how did the first exchange happen? Did he ask you initially? Did you? And he has them now to look at, so for me, I'd still have them and wouldn't necessarily need to ask for more (not that I've ever exchanged nudes with anyone lol). But it's like, I have one to see, don't need more (have to ask for any). But he likes them. His reaction of "you're so beautiful" means he likes them. But I do think you need to find out what each others "expectations" are of this relationship, or what you want it to hopefully become. Just to make sure your on the same page.

    • Turns out that he just didn't know how to approach the situation again 😂 so I asked him if I could send him a pic and to test the waters I sent something random, there was a lot of tension I could tell and he went liking a specific sexy photo of me. I sent a new picture and he was excited and we had a great time last night. Thank you for opening my eyes to a different perspective!

  • You are in an interesting situation. You do not expect to become a girlfriend, but you enjoy the sexual talk and sending him nudes. He does not sound as excited to receive them as most guys would be. It sounds like you enjoy showing yourself and only expect him enjoying the pictures and letting you know that he likes them. Since you are not expecting a relationship as a girlfriend, I can not imagine what his interest is since he does not seem to enjoy the nudes.
    I suggest you find a guy who appreciates your attention. There are many, many guys who would enjoy the relationship you are in. For that matter, since it is all long distance and no expectations for a girlfriend type relation, you can have more than one guy for that. As long as it is this type of relationship, I do not think most guys would mind if you did that, as long as you are honest about it with them.

    • Thank you for MHGuy. 😀

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  • Maybe he's falling for you in a different way, or maybe he wasn't in the mood when you chatted or maybe he didn't like you in the sexual way you know maybe.

  • I don't know maybe sense he's talking to more women than just you rn, that's kind of how dating works anymore unfortunately, are you bfgf or exclusive?

    • What does talking to other girls has to do with anything? Kinda confused here

    • Well if he's talking to multiple women at once and trying to decide which one would be the best girlfriend he may not get too involve with you before he has found out if you are the one for sure.

    • Oh and you said that "next time never came" did you try telling him you were horning again?

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  • Sounds like he's not great at texting. Also seems like he is hesitant to talk about sex or your nudes either because he's got someone else he's seeing or maybe he lacks self-confidence to keep going further.

  • Maybe he's trying to be a gentleman or not appear like a complete perv

  • The guy could be getting pics off of many girls and he is using you when he can and he may keep texting you cause something about you strikes a charm and that's it he got the pics you gave and he sent his pics to you that he had that was the end of things the guy may not have any more interest in you sad to say but people do them things to us I have it happen to me and it pisses me off, this one girl said, why don't you text me more and she wakes me up at 7:00 this morning I was half sleep responded back to her that was it, I'm like WTF so now I fixed my phone that I won't receive notifications to or any phone calls from 10:00 p. m. - 9:00 a. m. unless someone else comes along

    • I would be totally ok but what's the point in texting me to ask the same shit over and over? Like, what exactly does he wants out of this? He doesn't ask for nudes, doesn't engage in sexual conversations, is pretty plain with his replies but somehow is always interested in knowing my shit. Why?

    • Yeah, I know the same old shit would make you wonder why he wants text so I understand you it would annoy the hell of me too

  • First ask your self what am I looking for. Once you do that holler at your boi. which I mean me

  • He asked for your nude once...
    And if you sent him once the door to nudes is open and he is not going to ask for one..
    But you should send him if you feel like it..
    If he doesn't want your nudes he will say..
    "Stop sending me nudes" then you can stop sending nudes.. Otherwise casually keep sending him nudes..

  • How can we answer this if we don't see the pics? 🤨...😏

  • Unfortunately yes

    • Now that sucks, doesn't it? I even have better pictures now and all he wants to talk about is the same boring "how's your day" lol

    • What makes them better?

    • Better lighting, more consistent, better poses, more showing

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  • Probably feel bad about forced you into sent him a nude picture

  • If he thought your nudes were bad, then he would have stopped communicating with you.

    • Why haven't he asked for more? Any suggestions? He told me he was horny weeks and weeks back I wasn't around then I told him I was horny but he wasn't around and after that he doesn't even play flirty when I flirt a little like tf

    • Maybe he's just being polite and doesn't want to seen as a horn dog. Why not send him one randomly and see what he says?

  • Maybe you shouldn’t have sent him nudes so early. Have to keep him teased and wanting more...

  • Can't really tell without seeing them. Or you could just ask him

  • Some guys don’t want to say anything that’s going to piss you off.
    If you want him to talk dirty or anything, you will have to tell him.

  • I'd check them out for you, to see if they are bad or not 😝

  • Ask him

  • sounds to me like jerking off to your photos id holding him over

  • Not sure how do you looks?

  • Perhaps he dont like your body

    • Perhaps, but still why would he keep messaging me? If he doesn't want nudes what is it?

    • Perhaps he want life sexual relationship

    • He want do *

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