I thought he was only into sex, did I misinterpreted wrong?

Hi everyone,

I dated a guy who online seemed smart, wel educated, full of positivity, looking for a real relation ship.

First date we talked a lot, but I noticed he asked a lot of questions about sex and brought the topic up a lot. Out of the blue he asked me if I use birth control? He also mentioned he does a STD test every 3 months, cause he isn't sure about the sexual health of the women he dates. He asked me what I thought about a treesome and what I would think of the thought my boyfriend playing in porn. At the end off the date he was rubbing my leg when he told me 'I think we need to go or else my hand will go somewhere else *Laughing*.

I thought giving him a second change. Before the second date he wanted to know if he could stay over at my place. I told him I don't feel comfortable with this right away. He then told me he thinks I'm very carefull with everything. He mentioned me not being open about sex and not willing to discuss a relationship I've had.

We went on a second date. To me it felt better then the first time (I also talked personal stuff), but sex was still a topic. We started to dance and things got pretty steamy. I already told him I like sex just as much as him, but really want him to get to know me first and the other way around. I want this connection on more then a physical level. He said 'why not have sex if you pshycially feel like it?'

He started sending me sexual pictures. He alsof told me he was a gentleman last time, but next time he wouldn't be a gentleman anymore and he would 'take it'. He put some emo's in this message, it meant to be a tease. I said him 'no = no' . He asked me how I felt about this side of him? I told him I like his sexual side (in a relationship) and that I like sex to, but I wasn't ready.
He told me he was trying to connect with me, but all I did was blowing him off. He said to him it wasn't all about sex. To him I'm to open and scared. He doesn't want to date me anymore.
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  • No, you didn't misinterpreted a thing. You met a classic player. He wanted to fuck you and then most likely never call again. He wouldn't be your boyfriend. No way.
    If you're looking for a relationship, then you did the right thing by refusing :)

    • Nice to hear this from you☺️. How do you do this with women you Finde sexually attractive and want to let them know?

    • Hpw do I do what? You mean, how do guys lie to get laid?

    • No, how do you stay a gentleman and get to know her?

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  • Because you have SO MUCH more to offer besides the three holes you can offer for sex. Dont pretend that you dont like it how the guy wants to fuck you.

    • Im not sure what you mean with the last sentence. Ofcourse women like to now you want her, but be descent and show respect if you want to be serious with her.

    • No lass. Respect is for the white knight you like to friend zone. If the man is making the area between your legs wet you never require respect beforehand. You will fuck him doggystyle like the filthiest whore and ask him to slutshame you while he's at it.

    • My guess you're not serious about this topic. But hey, I also want him to like me for who I am besides my body. Friendzone would mean I would never have touched or kissed him. You want to build the tension and then realise. I could have slept with him, but wanted more and he knew.

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