Why are boys told to have sex with older women, but girls are discouraged from having sex with older men?

[Mylife411]

I don't see why there is so much hypocrisy and prejudice from people regarding this issue.

You always see men encouraging boys to have sex with older women, but girls are always shamed when they have sex with older men and people are disgusted. This is illogical because girls are into older men more than younger.

[MrWolf]

It's something too do with parents disagreement on this topic. But as you said in reverse is all right.

In the eyes of a mother and a father their daughter being with an older man is something wrong.

But if it's a boy it's another thing.

Boys are being told because they can learn a thing or two about woman from someone more experienced.

But in the girl case se then it's wrong.

Even I don't completely understand but that's the way society thinks.

Now nothing is stopping them from doing it.

But the father feels kind ashemed for his daughter being with an older person because by their thought he can manipulate the said girl.

Yet the boy can only win from such a situation.

It's a complicated topic indeed.

[Mylife411]

They ignore the woman is just as much of a manipulator and that their daughter wants older men just as much as their son. It's prejudice

[Mylife411]

@ilikeplants

[MrWolf]

Indeed it is a prejudice! Because a more mature woman can hold a a deep grudge against man which she is hiding. See people mindset work as an broken telephone you hear one thing yet you understand another.

[Mylife411]

What do you mean grudge?

[MrWolf]

What i mean is lets say Older Woman A had been lied over the years and has been betrayed many times. Meets Boy B doesn't know much about life so she can exploit him as she desires it may heal her in the process or raise boy B to become someone who gets it back on woman later on. It's just an example nothing more nothing less. Same thing can be said about Man and younger girls. That's what is on the mindset of parents and this is what leads to not being ok for girls to date older man. But as you too understand society is flawed.

[Mylife411]

I believe people are born that way.

[MrWolf]

Maybe most are born this way and some are being manipulated. But as you know this days man are show to be less important then woman. As you know the world is fight over equality. So that's why man are being shamed for dating younger girls. And woman are being left off the hook. Because to point a finger at a man is okey. But point that finger against a woman and you are the bad guy.

[boggboss]

Its just everyone has a opinion thats simply it many have a based view on how sex is treated as males to females

[Mylife411]

You mean these people are biased and sexist?

[boggboss]

Truly sexust no but hold biases that they themselves probably don't even know or see it that way

[Mylife411]

Why not truly sexist?

[boggboss]

Because i dont believe they truly believe 1 gender is better then the other even if they hold some stupid views

[Mylife411]

That's not what sexist means. Sexism is when you treat one gender differently to the other, no?

[boggboss]

Yes but due to believing one gender is superior to the other

[Mylife411]

They still seem sexist to me

[boggboss]

Thats fair enough for you but to me ita not that simple

[Li-Na]

Because society thinks from a "biological" point of view, the notion that men can't keep their dick in their pants and their natural preference for younger women.

[Li-Na]

"natural"

[Adam1978]

You need to make a fact check on your statement, female dating older men are extremely common. Boys using older women less common but no one shame them for it, it's practise but nothing for long term if you want family.

[Mylife411]

You misunderstood everything. I said Girls and men are shamed for having SEX, not dating. But boys are always told to have sex with older men. It's just as common as girls having sex with older men. And the older woman is not shamed like the man.

[Adam1978]

Dating leads to sex, and no one tells girl to have sex outside relationships because it is bad for them and you can see it in today's society. Guys are not told to have sex with older men, that's gay and that's isn't encouraged ever even if gays are shunned or harassed as much as before.

[Mylife411]

Omg, I mean to say with older women, not men.

[Mylife411]

Boys are encouraged to have sex with older women but girls are are told not to have sex with older men. Plus, older men are shamed, and older women are not. I am right.

[Adam1978]

Men are only shamed if they aren't legal age. No one shame a guy dating or having sex with young women. Not by men, only by older women who get bypassed by the younger women, who ones was them and they enjoyed their role when they where in their shoes. And we men don't listen to their opinion. Aslong as young women stop dating older men, nothing will happen here. So older women needs to shame younger women and older men to try to increase their odds and share of attention. It's all a very selfish thinking and acting because they failed to secure a good catch when they had the best chance to do so.

[Mylife411]

So why are not older women shamed for having sex with boys? And why are boys encouraged to have sex with older women and girls are not encouraged to have sex with older men? You ignored that, because you know it's true what I say.

[JPrez]

There is some of that in society today, not sure why.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Because men will always been seem as perverts or predator

[Floppy2112]

I must say, I have no idea what you are talking about. Women have sex with older men all the time.

[Browneye57]

There isn't, they're not. Both of your statements are false.
A severe age mis-match never really works out.

[ILikePlants]

Dont think I've ever heard this

[Mylife411]

Maybe I worded it wrong, but fact is older men are shamed, but older women are not

[COMMODOREII]

Girls have always been discriminated for their sexuality.