Guys, why would you want to destroy a woman so badly?

[Anonymous]

So I met this guy off tinder ages ago and we just talked in a sexual way and I wasn’t looking for anything more at that point of my life. After talking the first time I thought he was quite rude and I never replied or messaged him ever. A month later he started messaging me and I wasn’t very keen because I saw he had profile pic with his girlfriend and kept insisting on meeting but I refused. Months later I finally agreed to meet him and we had an amazing sex. After the sex he became extremely rude and started asking to have sex again which I refused to. 3 whole years later he continued messaging me and insisting we have sex but I always refused. He called me a whore, prostitute, slut all the worst names you could imagine. He would message me out of the blue and start insulting me. He even added me on Facebook and stalking my photos and whereabouts. He would ask me where to go for holidays and restaurants and bars and he would go to the exact places that I have been to and send me photos... when I first met him I gave him my pack of cigarettes and 3 years later he still kept them... I agreed sometimes to meet him for sex because he messaged me almost every weekend and then he would reject me. What was his game? I had enough and blocked him and haven’t heard from him ever since then. I just don’t know why would he try to tear me down so badly when we never even dated?

[TonyV]

Why did you ever have sex with him? Ge was rude, had a girl friend, kept being pushy and persistent, not taking no for an answer and THEN you had sex with him? That's just wild too me, yeah the dudes a dick but why did you have sex with a rude guy that dosent take no for an answer?

Why do you girls like rude bad guys?

[Asker]

Honestly? Because he has a big dick and he’s just Phenomenal in bed. I had the best oral sex ever with him and I’ve been with a lot of guys before and after him and I just cannot erase him from my memory

[TonyV]

But wasn't he rude before the first time you did it?

[Asker]

Mmmm yeah he was kind of arrogant but it got much worse after we had sex and I just cannot explain why

[TonyV]

Well like you said, your hooked cause he's got a big dick, a great mouth and is great in bed, maybe he somehow knew you were hooked on him, so he may be manipulating you, like some guys will do that cause if you break a girl down just right instead of her just leaving the prick she thinks she has to try harder cause she graves HIS validation. Or he is just an arrogant prick, he thinks he's got you and in the slight chance he dosent he dosent care if he loses you 🤷‍♂️ I don't know, who cares he's an asshole that you only tolerated cause he was a good fucker

[Asker]

Ohhhh I see wow I didn’t know men play such cruel games on women... wow! Thanks for the information ! I just cannot believe you would manipulate and abuse someone just because u know they are into you. Wow! Why couldn’t he be nice to me if he knew I was so into him?

[TonyV]

It's just a thought, I could be wrong, but I've seen women fall into that trap before. For some reason the last person in the world that youd think shed care what they thought is exactly who she is desperate too impress, and there are definitely guys that would take advantage of girls with such a weird desire to get validation. I've heard a girl say age feels she deserves to be treated bad so she dated bad guys on perpuse.

[Mark987]

Hon... this guy has mental issues. Your first issue was meeting him.. but that is done with... I had a Woman I really loved cheat on me with a close friend, and I didn't do that. I always stand by these words... the only thing that can drive a man crazy... IS A WOMAN... still that is no excuse. BE CAREFUL

[Asker]

Is he a psycho or? He never hurt me or threatened me I just couldn’t understand why he behaved in such way... he’s a very intelligent guy and has a very successful career

[Mark987]

Maybe not... but he definitely has something to deal wth

[Asker]

In what way I provoked him to be so rude to me? We never tried dating it was just a hookup and then he insisted on meeting again but I always refused, sometimes I agreed like 2-3 times over the 3 years but then he would reject me

[Mark987]

I am just giving you my opinion. You wrote this " I thought he was quite rude and I never replied or messaged him ever". Do what makes you feel comfortable

[OlderAndWiser]

Instead of trying to determine why he acted stupid, perhaps you would have a better chance of success if you tried to determine why YOU acted stupid.

[Asker]

I was just attracted to him at first but I just couldn’t explain why he always tried to hurt me

[OlderAndWiser]

And you kept having sex with him after you knew how awful he was.

[Asker]

We had sex only once... after that we never had sex again

[OlderAndWiser]

So why didn't you block him instead of staying in contact with him?

[Asker]

Weirdly enough I felt attracted to him and I was wondering why is he being so hateful towards me

[OlderAndWiser]

Being physically attracted is not enough reason to remain engaged with a psycho. Were you thinking with your pussy instead of your brain?

[kellytheman]

Because he is a asshole one of the bad guys that just want sex and he thinks putting down women and destroy your self-esteem manipulate you to have sex. I consider him a fuckboy. A fucking is a guy that's thinks he's good looking and every girl wants him but he is truly a delusional douch. It's a good thing you block him and try avoid him the best you can. You should be treated with respect.

[Luckycharms12]

First mistake was meeting him the first time. He had a girlfriend and still fooled around with him clear he wasn't a nice guy

[Asker]

I met him after they broke up. Well I would presume so

[Luckycharms12]

They didn't break up

[Asker]

How do you know? Well clearly they weren’t together after because we talked for 3 years and was always with his friends and went travelling with family. I never saw photos of her ever again

[Luckycharms12]

Because I know how guys work

[Asker]

No because she moved back home and he deleted his profile pic with her. During the 3 years he traveled a lot and I saw his stories on Instagram she never in the picture. It’s not possible

[Luckycharms12]

Well he should be rude to call you names not on. Its okay on bedroom if in to that otherwise it's horrible

[Asker]

Yeah I just never understood why I never provoked him or was never mean to him

[Luckycharms12]

Nah just seem like child don't give him what he want he name calls

[Asker]

Ah yes it does makes sense

[Luckycharms12]

Don't understand that mind set you get rejected so calling girl load of names going make her change her mind lol

[Asker]

I honestly don’t get it either and if I was an escort, dumb birch and all the names he called me then why he went to so many places that I have been to and why he always contacted me

[Asker]

Like if I think so low of someone I wouldn’t want any contact with that person

[Luckycharms12]

Ya that be my thinking to well main thing is you don't have deal with him now and can find nice person

[Valnac]

That’s typical for Tinder, predators and perverts.

[Seppel]

I never wanted to destroy anyone

[Anonymous]

He is an insane sicko. stay away

[Asker]

Like a psychopath? Do you think he would hurt me?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, dont give him any chance to do that

[Anonymous]

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