How do you respond to these people?

[Anonymous]

I saw many comments from people say that sexual harrasment happens because girls' clothes.. I had conversations with them andbtried to analyze the psychological meanings behind their thoughts.
I found that they use unlogical and misleading points about that topic so i want to explain these points :
1 - men and women get attracted to eachothers becasue of major aspects but the top of them is body shape which is so popular with men because it is our natural.
While womem also gets attracted from men's body shape but they don't find that as the main aspect , they also look for personality.
1- that is a natural instinct.
2- i am single and didn't have sex with a partener and i find many sexy girls out there so i can't stop myself.
I examined every point searching for their psychological meanings and explained the misleading arguments they use to justify sexual harrasment.
First of course there is a biological reason to e attracted to women who are sexy and beautiful , but human relations are decided based on acceptance and free desire , so yes we find them attractive but we mustn't break the main rule which is asking for acceptance and there is a huge difference between asking for their acceptance and attack their privacy and personality and we don't know them so we are strangera unlike when we are in a relationship with someone who will not find sharing feelings weird.
Being unable to have sex doesn't justify making aggresion on any woman.. It is your personal issue and all you do is pointing your desires wrong to a stranger person who doesn't know you or in a relationship with you , here there isn't consideration for people privacy and main rights.
Finally i tried to explain for them that women wear different style of clothes to reflect their inner meanings like feeling confident with body shape and beauty like we men do when we have great body as a result from hitting gym
And we men tend to feel happy from any woman flirting with us while they not.

[Anonymous]

Sexual harassment does not happen because of clothes, but wearing revealing clothing is putting a girl in a situation where it is more likely to happen. A little like, a girl doesn't get raped because she gets good and drunk, but it makes it more likely to happen.

[Asker]

When she gets drunk that doesn't justify raping her.. Does being drunk is the same as having full consciousness. Do u find it rational to accept contract signs from drunk people? Being drunk makes humans brains unable to have full ability to take decisions based on well thinking. I know what you mean which is the persons who do that find it easy to rape her because she is unconscious ، so she must care for herself so no one will make that crime , but in the end he must be in prison.

[Boodica]

Fertility, hormones, pheromones, all pay a portion of invisible attraction. Adults are supposed to control these urges & find acceptable outlets such as masturbation. Consenting adults, responsible adults must respect caution in STDs or an unplanned pregnancy. Keep it in your pants.

[Asker]

That is great , i also want to say that when we lived in ancient societies we had to accept losing some desires if they interfere with others lives.. Because we don't have the right to act like we have all things so i must respect others people marriage relation and don't cheat with one of those partners. It is not acceptable at all.

[Anonymous]

Why do you feel that you need to respond? Do you think that you will "fix them"

Is this like Anti-Racism. Are you standing up and challenging these hateful thoughts to make the world a better place for everyone?

[Asker]

I am not actong like someone who fights to change the world , i am just a person who wants to try to fix something.

[Opinion Owner]

Do you think that you have a chance? Tell me about the last time that you changed someones mind

[Asker]

I actually changed somone's mind , it is right to let this problem because it is hard to find a solution for. I know it differes from one topic fo another. For example i changed my friend idea about virginity and the psycholofical reasons men find the virginity as gold. I had many conversation with him and explained that this idea is related to thinking of woken as objects many men see her as used thing , while relationship is about caring and love not about tisssue. She is an object.

[Opinion Owner]

Is English your second language or your third>

[Asker]

Second English , why?

[Tedyruckspin]

It can't be clothes because fully covered Muslim women where you can only see their eyes are sexually harassed everyday