Guys, why would a guy not want to go all the way?

So on our third date date we finally had our first kiss & that night we fooled around a bit but we didn't go all the way even though I really wanted to. He kept teasing me and said that night was about me when I tried to go down on him.

I haven't met a guy who didn't want anything in return before so I'm confused and now I can't stop thinking about having sex with him. But is he not interested?
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  • He could be a bit prudish; he could want to make sure you're clean (yes, it can come across as insulting, but it's actually a REALLY, REALLY good idea); he could just want to make it special. Some guys are like that; it's not a bad thing. There's also some truth to the idea that you want what you can't have.

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  • Sounds like he's playing you like a fiddle. He sees you need it and so he's playing hard to get so you'll do anything he wants.

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  • Perhaps he is simply a very smart guy. Look at the effect this has had on you. Maybe that was part of his plan!

  • It sounds like he is interested but, perhaps has an oral fixation like I do and may really like you for more.

  • Not everyone is in a big hurry to have sex. He is letting you know he wants you but wants to savor the moment.

  • He may have been trying to hide something such as he hadn't showered or that he masturbated earlier in the day and wasn't ready to cum again. Hopefully it won't happen again.

  • May be he is gay

  • Exactly for what you said. It’s called seduction and the more he delays the more you want him. He still likes you. He just understands there is no reason to rush sex

  • Umm, he might think that somehow it will build things up to be more intense or he might be gay.

  • Could be a million reasons. Maybe he feels he can’t perform that night... he might not want to lead you on if he’s not sure he’s totally into you, at the same time, he could really be into you and not want to seem like that’s why he’s there... (trying to be respectful...) could be good... bad... or neither...

  • he wanted you to KNOW that he is different than most Guys... and... "you can't stop thinking about him..."

  • He's teasing you.
    The more he denies it, the more you want.

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