I'm afraid to show my sexual attraction to guys?

I'm afraid to show my sexual attraction to guys because I believe that I become TOO sexually obsessive. I become really obsessive when I like someone sexually, and even more when I'm also romantically attracted to him.

I think about them excessively, talk about them excessively, I have sexually obsessive thoughts that never stop, I see them EVERY night in my dreams, I write poems about them, I literally imagine dying with them etc.

I feel like if I'm going to express my sexual feelings, they're gonna be TOO intense and TOO obsessive.

I'm confused, do guys actually like sexual intensity & too much passion and obsession, or they think it's a turn off when a girl is like that?
Im afraid to show my sexual attraction to guys?
I also have some kinks that are focused on specific body parts. I'm afraid that you guys are going to think that I'm crazy or weird.
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  • I'm a massive pervert, but I've been scared away before by a girl that was a bit too open with me when we'd only just started reconnecting that same day after years of being apart. It's not something that I'm proud of because it wasn't her fault really, and I'm incredibly sorry that I ghosted her.
    I guess she was just really enthusiastic about seeing me again, but it's also worth noting that that was just one of the factors that led to me being scared off. I had some personal issues at the time that I was struggling with.

    Point is, I think I'd love it if a girl opened up to me like you're suggesting. I'm sure a lot of guys would (all guys are different), but you should probably do it a little bit at a time. See how he reacts, and if it seems like he's not as into all that as you, pull back a little bit.

    I think a good idea is also to just talk about your likes and dislikes honestly and to what degree, instead of necessarily trying to guess everything. I mean if you're going to get sexual or romantic, you should be able to talk to each other plainly.

Most Helpful Guy

  • What you're suggesting can be what guys call " clingers". There is nothing wrong with what you listed. But i recommend finding a guy who reflects the same attitu de. How do you know. Find a guy and let a little bit loose. If he doesn't pull away. Then let loose a little more. Keep doing it as long ad he's responding favorably. If he doesn't at some point he's probably NOT the man for you. If he continuessly matches your affrction then you probably found a winner

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well I’m a Virgin and I wouldn’t be surprised if I acted like this...

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/R5WC60UwB_Y

    Just don’t know how guys would take it.

  • It is best no to be too much or guy get wrong message. Is best to not be to complex with guy, be sensual not just sexy.

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  • You are young and your hormones haven't leveled out yet. Take a break and focus on yourself and activity until it subsides. You be thankful that you did.

  • Sexual intesaty is fine if u find a man that his a high sex drive to cater to that along as u don't come off as a crazy girl throwing tantrums for any min he is not there or wanting 100% of his time it shouldn't be a issue kinks could be a issue depending on what they are and if he is into them

  • Depends on the guy like most things. Sounds good to me tho

  • Thats actually really hot haha, i think you're sex drive being under 20 is in super-mode and so the guy who will experience will need oxygen 😂 lucky guy.

  • I'm totally into everything you've described. Some guys aren't.

  • Sounds intense, but hot...

  • You girl are a divine one. You are the dream girl of many mans.
    Even mine. I love kinky/freaks girls like you.
    May i ask what are thous kinks of yours? You can follow me if you don't want to show them here.

  • Try it from the safety of one or two online relationships and see where it goes. I'll play if you'd like

  • not at all.. we have more than ur sexual obsession and ur obsession may seem smaller. Any guy if know u r attracted would bang u like her slut and use u fullest to the extent

  • That's not weird

  • Ain't sound that weird to me. Maybe the poem part. But then again, you might have an artist soul.

    Nobody has ever written a poem about me, although there would be a few events to behold in my life xddd

    • Yeah, I do have an artist soul. But why the poem part is weird?

    • I don't know. It's just something I never seen. Also, don't be afraid of your kinks.

  • you think you will be overwhelm us? find one with a high sex drive.. and I have my kinks too.

  • You are over thinking this and I think you just need to go for it and then see what happens. Trust me, most guys aren't gonna hate it if passion and intensity are over done, and depriving yourself of lots of pleasure.

  • We do like the passion and intensity but yeah it's sounds a little too much I would not call a turn off but its not a turn on either.

  • Try me and we'll see...

  • LOL.. it all depends how obsessive you are. Do you smother a guy? A crazy sexual drive I’d love. Can you love it do you think that sex us love?

    • Yes, I do like that

    • Like is great..

  • You are minor , focus your energy to study first

  • You don't have to hide you're sexual attraction from them just be careful on how you show

  • Not to get weird with you since you’re under age, but have you done any sexual activity? Having been a virgin until 20, I can say it drives you obsessively mad- until you have it. Then it’s apart of life moving forward.

  • Do girls like good looking men? Do girls also enjoy sex or do they just like giving a man pleasure?

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