Girls, Would you honestly tell your boyfriend if he had a smaller dick?

[Anonymous]

It seems pretty much all girls would never tell the honest truth because they dont want to hurt his feelings and while it might be perfect or enough for them to be satisfied, answering by telling him that it is a good size doesn't completely mean that you don't think he isn't small.

Although it might hurt knowing the truth I wish girls would just be more honest and upfront about it. It doesn't have to be in a rude insulting way. I know some girls don't care about stating facts, but those are the toxic ones that don't care about the guy.

[Anonymous]

No. The male ego doesn’t take that kind of honesty very well, especially from a female partner. If a guy isn’t satisfying me sexually, I will just tell him I don’t feel like we’re compatible and I don’t see the relationship moving forward and I leave it at that. It hurts but it doesn’t emasculate him. Being sexually dominant is part of the male identity. I’ve seen girls comment on their penis size with the intention of hurting them and they get angry and defensive about it. There may be some guys who could handle that kind of honesty but most can’t in my experience.

[Asker]

So even if everything else in the relationship is great and you *were compatible with everything else such as personality and he is a great guy, would you still tell him you don't want to keep moving forward? In other words, sex alone makes or breaks a relationship without regards to anything else?

[Opinion Owner]

Sex isn’t everything but it’s hard to maintain a relationship long term if the sex isn’t at least good. No matter how you slice it, no one wants to be sexually frustrated forever. It just undermines the whole thing.

[Eldoradο]

I wouldn't do that. I tend to have sex with someone I love. So, the penis size doesn't matter. If you're looking for a fuckbuddy, then you're not gonna pick a dude with a small size.

[loves2learn]

I wouldn’t tell a man he’s small. I’m not trying to destroy someone’s mental health. And to a certain extent penis size isn’t everything. It’s still possible to satisfy a woman with a smaller than average penis. As long as it’s not too small.

[kapkiki]

i would probably dodge the q ("i like it just the way it is"--altho i'd prob only say this if i meant it)

if they pressed, really really pressed, i'd ask if it mattered that much to them, and if they continued, i'd answer honestly

[Pattycakes765]

Yes I told a ex of mine that he's small