For straight people, did you ever experiment sexually with someone from the same sex in your preteen/early teens even though you’re entirely straight?

[Anonymous]

Before I start, I’m a straight male who has never felt an attraction to men/fantasized about being with men. I’ve had many girlfriends/sexual experiences with women, that we both very much enjoyed. However, When I was probably 11-12, I was watching porn with a friend of mine and then we both started masturbating while watching. This happened a couple more times and then one day, this kind of just happened: we started to jerk each other off just to see how it would feel, sense we had never had sex/fooled around with girls. Eventually we experimented with giving each other oral sex briefly. This happened a few times after too, but then it ended. Neither of us were attracted to each other romantically or even physically. We’re in our 20’s now and even since that point that we experimented, we both have had many girlfriends and never had any other same sex experiences. I’m looking back on these encounters I had with my friend when I was very young and wonder if anyone else had this happen to them? Like trying stuff out with a friend even though you aren’t attracted to your same sex at all? What does this all mean? Thanks!

[LazyProphet]

No sir, never thought about doing something like that, what kind of porn were you watching? The closest thing to that I've done is rub one out at the same time as my cousin but both on our opposite ends of the room, and looking at our own playboys. I also had a friend try groping me 2 different times when I was passed out drunk, luckily I woke up though and I was pretty pissed off.

[Joshua213]

I've masturbated with other guys, but while looking at girls so yeah

[Asker]

Was that the only experience you had with a guy and are you straight now?

[Joshua213]

Yeah and yeah

[SweetSouthernGal]

To be blunt NO straight man plays with other men. Not one second.

The fact that you two have had multiple girlfriends means nothing. Elton John was married to a woman & he's as gay as the rainbow. Freddie Mercury had a long time girlfriend however he was predominantly gay, slightly bisexual.

[JuneLady]

I only did when I thought I was lesbian, never with someone I wasn't sexually attracted to

[Asker]

I see. What do you make of my situation in the past?

[JuneLady]

It doesn't make much sense to me, but I've always heard young boys are a bit more crazy sexually

[Asker]

I think that’s the best explanation. Since I’m not attracted to men at all, I think it was just raging hormones. Definitely wish I never would have done it, but I can’t change the past

[JuneLady]

Well, I'm at least glad you recognize that. There are many things in my life (including that experimentation) that I regret deeply

[Miristheiss]

No. I am 100% straight so nothing appeals sexually, romantically about men.

[Ffej85]

I experimented when I was a teen with a best mate. Started of watching porn then oral and anal. Never any attraction more see how it felt.

[Lottifan]

I experimented with a couple of friends when I was in my teens.

[FakeNIK]

No...

[trvlr60]

Are you kidding back in the day in the hood that's suicide besides thought never Even entered my mind just knew it was not how it's supposed to be so no hell no absolutely no and I do feel same way I respect those who go for same gender but this guy only fits for women, females, though today getting harder to tell difference hit to really scrutinize who you meet, Damn plastic surgeons

[Anonymous]

I am highly bi-curious.

[Anonymous]

Masturbated together a lot but nothing really else

[Asker]

Was that the only experience you had with another guy and are you straight now?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I've always been straight but we used to do that quite a bit