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He said anal sex felt emotional to him?

He said he loved it when this girl once asked him to fuck her ass. When I asked him what’s different about it when compared to a vagina, I was expecting him to say something physical (ie “tighter”). He said no; I wouldn’t understand. He said he felt it was primal and emotional. And she was one of the few women he genuinely enjoyed cuddling with after sex and it wasn’t just a chore.

What does he mean? What about a woman asking him to perform anal on her made him feel that way?
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  • I am not good with words either but it is primal and dirty and hot all at the same time. If a girl asks you to fuck her ass like that then she really needs it. She is not pretending, she needs him inside her ass. The ass does feel better than the vagina but not because it is tighter. It is extremely soft. Its like fucking a cloud, but the appeal isn't really about the feel its everything else that goes along with anal sex that makes it better for some or worse for others.

    Another thing is that when she asks for him to enter her ass she is making herself very vulnerable to him. That acts to bond them together as well. Many guys enjoy eating her ass and fingering it during foreplay. It think that it is more emotional because of the vulnerability that she offers to him.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't understand the comment about her being the only woman he'd been with where he felt cuddling after sex wasn't a chore. I can't relate to that part. But I can relate to the emotional connection part where the woman desires it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • So, physically, I'm not a huge fan of anal. But emotionally speaking, I will say I kind of see where he's coming from.

    I've had anal sex with my boyfriend a couple of times. The first time, I think I was in too much pain to notice anything else, but the last time we had anal, it was the most intense sexual experience of my life. He was fingering me at the same time and making a lot of eye contact, and I've just never felt so owned (in the best way possible) by someone.

  • A lot of women aren’t into trying anal. Maybe it felt emotional that she was willing to try something that others won’t.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • LOL! You believe him?

    OMG! People in general farts with their ass and stinks. But he farts with his mouth and smells good to you. LOL!

    PS: no offense, just a joke. And all he wants is to pin your butt hole.

  • ha anal is pretty much one of the only things I am not game for in the bedroom. It's a no go for me. Also BDSM creeps me tf out.

  • It's a taboo and naughty feeling thing. It feels more intimate then vaginal.

  • If you don’t like it don’t do it

  • It requires a lot of trust for the girl.

  • because he's gay

  • I can't speak for him, but for me and my wife anal can be a very intimate and loving experience. Other times it is very raunchy and raw. Both are awesome.

  • He just likes some mud on the helmet

    • i'm gonna puke

  • I had a similar type of feeling the time I had sex with an ex girlfriend during her period. It is a strange connection afterwards.

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