Girls, do you think it's okay to buy a pair of heels for my boyfriend?

[manonoliveira]

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he is a really great person and we are happy together. I would like to make new experiences, that he explores more his feminine side. I'm talking to him about it, and he's a little reluctant to the idea, because he's scared for his manhood and what people are going to say. I told him that he didn't have to be worried about his manhood, that just because he wears a pair of heels doesn't mean he won't be a man anymore. I also told him that it is sure that some people will criticize it, but that we do not live for others and I also told him that many other people will approve of that. I told him that we live in a world with fewer and fewer gender stereotypes. He finally agreed that I order this pair of heels from him, we should receive them tomorrow, I can't wait for him to try them lol. Do you think buying a pair of heels for my boyfriend is a bad thing?

[michelle3685]

Maybe you could buy those for me! Just kidding, but they are adorable. Hey, go for it, if that's something you're both willing to explore. A lot of men experiment with cross dressing to some extent, I've actually known a few. They confided it to me and asked for help, so I did. Shopping and going out was a lot of fun!

[manonoliveira]

Haha, it's nice of you to have helped some of these guys cope. Me, I had a lot of trouble convincing him to buy this pair of heels for him, because he is afraid for his manhood etc lol, but I managed to convince him, so when tomorrow I will receive the pair of heels, I would start by training her to walk with it and then gradually I would make her try on different outfits, such as skirts. But at first he will only wear heels at home and then in time we can go outside

[michelle3685]

Very interesting! Would love to see his face when you present him with the heels and some outfits to put on. Something tells me that he is secretly excited about this.

[Jess1812]

I mean go for it. But I think you should give him a break and don't expect him to wear them in public all the time. He's a guy and sounds like he wants to be traditionally or casually masculine. This means it's important to him on a subconscious level. Constantly having him in heels might make him depressed or unhappy.

This coming from someone who has feminized her boyfriend and continues to do so.

[meggykentums]

I think it would be a cool couples project to try and put together an outfit that both explores a feminine side but also creates a unique look that wouldn't quite be called "transvestite."

[manonoliveira]

Yes I see, you are right, but I will start step by step, that is to say that I have already had a lot of trouble convincing him to buy this pair of heels for him, because he is afraid for his manhood etc lol, but I managed to convince him, so when tomorrow I will receive the pair of heels, I would start by training him to walk with then little by little I would make him try different outfits, like why not skirts but he has to go really step by step

[EmmaMary]

How absolutely ridiculous, those are enough to break any woman's ankles, let alone expecting a guy to wear them. smh

[manonoliveira]

With practice he will be able to walk with it, anyway at first he will only take heels in our house and not outside, because I don't want him to be threatened. And personally I don't see what bothers you in the fact that a man wears heels. We hurt no one

[collie22]

will they match his outfit?

[manonoliveira]

Not necessarily at the beginning, at the beginning I would make him wear heels only at home and afterwards when he has learned to walk correctly with the heels, we go outside and of course with an outfit that is going well.

[Legs79]

I guess.

[manonoliveira]

Yes, this is really going to be a new experience for him, even if for the moment he is hesitating a little, it's normal, I know that it calls into question for him his virility, but I'm sure that the heels will look great on him, lol

[Legs79]

I’d rather see women in them.

[manonoliveira]

Yes I understand you, as a woman I love heels and I wear them regularly lol

[Legs79]

I hardly wear them I’m already tall.

[manonoliveira]

Ah yes I see lol, but I find that it makes us sexier lol

[Legs79]

This is true haven’t wore since November.

[manonoliveira]

Ah yes it's been a little while lol, me the last time I wore it two days ago lol, but honestly I can't wait to receive this pair of heels for my boyfriend lol, if you want I can explain why I want to do that, you can write me a private message if you want, it will be much easier for me to explain to you in private message than in the comments lol