Question for the men: are u more sexually attracted to bigger bbw women or thin petite women?

[Theresachemin]

[Leavesbound]

I honestly like bbw's. If the girl has a pretty or cute face, in other words if her body fat did not distort her face then that's a big plus. I adore disproportionately huge glorious magnificent asses. If you have a difficult time finding chairs wide enough for your ass then I'll gladly custom build an appropriate throne for you to sit on if we're dating. As for proportions. The ideal proportions that your ass is biggest around followed by your breasts followed by your belly. If you have really nice breasts then I probably won't notice if your belly is a little bigger. If I am introduced to your delicious ass first it may be weeks before I notice your breasts and belly anyways. A mistake many bbw's make is listening to idiots who tell them that fat girls should have short hair. I have met several bbw's with very short hair who swear up and down that short hair looks better on big girls because some expert told them. This is a lie made up by someone who is jealous of your hair and wants you to have less of it. A long beautiful mane is the perfect compliment to a huge ass, especially if it's long enough to reach said ass.

Never ever ask me "does this (fill in name of garment) make me look fat? " Ask me "Does this (fill in name of garment) accentuate the beauty of my fat ass?"

Many big girls have a hard time shaving their body. Luckily I have a body hair fetish to go with my big ass fetish. If you are big and I'm dating you I adore being trapped under long flowing dresses, especially dark ones that create some sexy mystery for me to solve with explorations.

Um OK I know, TMI.

Now I'm not saying slender girls don't have their place. They do. Despite everything I just typed above, I would not turn down a date with a slender girl just because she's not my preferred body type. For one thing, anyone can gain weight. For another, more than half the criteria I use to judge a girl date worthy is based on how nice she is as a person in general and how into me she is. 60% is personality, 20% how into me she is, 10% IQ and 10% body. If she is really a nice sweet girl and she likes me romantically and she's as smart or a little smarter than me then it almost doesn't matter what size or shape she is. The rest is just window dressing. A skinny girl can always hold sandbags in her lap while sitting on my face.

[Theresachemin]

Okay I had to laugh at that last part lol but thank you for ur honest input I really appreciate it lol

[loveslongnails]

Given those 4 choices, "BBW" is the last on my list. But let's be clear about something:

the term "BBW" was given by big women to themselves as a response to body shaming. The idea was that you "CAN be big AND be beautiful", and that's true. However, it quickly turned into " IF you're big, you're automatically beautiful", and that just isn't true !! Let's also keep in mind we're talking about outside beauty, not inside side, and that's subject to the beholder as well as the "times".

But just because you're big doesn't mean you're beautiful. Just because you're petite and/or thin, doesn't mean you're beautiful either.

[Theresachemin]

I can’t agree more^^^ 💯

[loveslongnails]

Why thanks, darlin' :)

[Theresachemin]

Your welcome, I’d consider myself a bbw only because I am beautiful and I’m a big girl, but I definitely agree there is a certain level or attractiveness that some people just lack regardless of size lol

[loveslongnails]

I agree. The point I was really trying to make, which you agree with too, is that outward beauty, nor inward for that matter, is NEVER determined by size or stature alone.

[Theresachemin]

Right I agree with that as well! Someone’s mindset is what’s the most sexy I know this from experience of being not interested in someone based on me not being attracted to them and then only to later on find myself getting attracted to them because of their personalities. All in all though as long as a person is not completely hideous u would be surprised what u might end up liking lol I’ll say I have surprised myself, as far as both ends of the spectrum, and that goes for very physically attractive people with ugly insides and personalities so it def goes both ways for sure

[loveslongnails]

You're a wise young lady

[MCheetah]

I prefer thick/plus-sized women, but not "sloppy, gross, obese" women claiming to be "thick" or BBWs. Once upon a time, that actually used to mean something. The saying goes, "If her stomach's still flat, she's thick, not fat." Put it this way: If she weighs more than 400 pounds, she's too much for me. I'll go up to 310, maybe. And only if she's 5'10" or over. So for this poll, I voted BBW's, but I more so mean "thick/plus-sized," and not obese/"SSBBW."

[Theresachemin]

Lol I feel u, I’m like 5’2 and 256 lbs if u were curious to know lol 😂

[buddysboy16]

When I say I love petites, I don't mean anorexic. I just mean small/short.

[Avicenna]

I'm attracted to fit, toned women most of all, but close behind that is thin women and curvy women. BBW are obese, and I'm not attracted to obese women.

[Theresachemin]

😂😂😂😂 on the basis of height vs weight yes bbw are more inclined to be considered to be “obese” on the concept of what that chart thingy says lol thanks for stating the obvious 😂😂 on what’s considered to be supposedly “healthy”

[Avicenna]

Skinny or fit/toned are healthy, some curvy women as well.

[Theresachemin]

Cool I’m glad u know that 😁

[Theresachemin]

But u can just say ur not attracted to bbw

[Avicenna]

You know, most of them have very beautiful faces and good personalities.

[Theresachemin]

Yes like myself

[MoreWhineMoreWhine]

Among my friends, we have mixed views. It’s like 50/50 in terms of this.

[Theresachemin]

Dang didn’t know it was that complicated lol

[exitseven]

I always went for the athletic type.

[Ripper_E]

Between those two, it depends on how big or how thin.
I'm sexually attracted to skinny women, fat women, and everything and between, but it depends on how thin or how big.

[Theresachemin]

So what If a bbw chick has a large stomach, not large as in it covers her knees when she sits but big as in it it touches her thighs a little bit when she sits? 😂😂

[Ripper_E]

Like that? bigger? Smaller?
Hard to know what you mean without actually seeing it.

[Theresachemin]

Yes exactly like that but maybe just a tad bit bigger , just a tad

[Ripper_E]

Yea I'm fine with that. Doesn't mean I'd find her attractive, because I wouldn't find every single skinny woman attractive either, but her being a BBW isn't a deal breaker in itself.

[Theresachemin]

Love that response ^^^

[Ripper_E]

thank you why is that?

[Theresachemin]

Because I like your honesty of course LOL

[Ripper_E]

Of course I have no reason to lie lol If I don't like something then I don't like it. If I like it, I like it. I'm not embarrassed to say I'm attracted to a fat woman. There have been several.

[Theresachemin]

Nice lol

[Ripper_E]

I saw that was your first question. Were you asking for yourself or out of curiosity?

[Theresachemin]

Curiosity I don’t have a problem finding me that are interested in me so no I’m not asking specifically for myself lol

[Ripper_E]

I wasn't suggesting otherwise lol just curious myself. You're a new face here, if not then I've never seen you here before.

[Theresachemin]

Yeh I’m kinda new u could say that

[Ripper_E]

What made you join?

[Theresachemin]

I don't know curious I guess wbu

[Ripper_E]

You're just a curious cat lol It was a few years back. I was seeking advice and I found this.

[Theresachemin]

Nice yeh I’m not to experienced in relationships, at least not with men anyway and I guess I was doing the same thing lol

[Ripper_E]

I had two relationships and neither of them ended on good terms. I was asking advice on someone i felt very strongly about. And yea that's why I asked if you were asking for yourself or just curiosity lol

[Theresachemin]

Gotcha yeh my relationships the 3 I've had , have also ended on bad terms lol but that’s the way the cookie crumbles I guess 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Ripper_E]

It is, but I was also a teen lol I don't know about you. I'd rather avoid a relationship now unless I am sure about her. Back then, my judgement was horrible.

[Theresachemin]

Yeh well I would rather do the same be single and not take anyone seriously unless they take me seriously

[Ripper_E]

Pretty much. I have no interest in games.

[Theresachemin]

Right!

[Ripper_E]

I've been single ever since. Only felt something for one person, beyond just sexual attraction.

[Theresachemin]

Yeh I feel that , I’ve felt more than just sexual attraction for two people , one male, one female, the male is what is fucking with my head now lol the female was from like 2017 lol so that’s was a while ago me and her are friends now though

[Ripper_E]

Fucking with your head how? A lot of people act like you can't be friends with an ex or whatever she was to you. In some cases that is true, but not always. No point in getting close to people if you're just going to toss them away.

[Theresachemin]

Yes I know that’s pretty much the mentality have , and always have had for years! So it’s rare I get to emotionally engulfed or involved with anyone unless I know I’m taken seriously and because I know how good I am and also know how hard it is for me to let go. Imma Scorpio lol 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Ripper_E]

sooooooo how is he fucking with your head? lol I'm an Aries. And yes, all that, but what I meant is that if someone means so much to you, it doesn't mean they are disposable just because things didn't work out. Some people just don't workout, and that's okay.

[Theresachemin]

Yeh I get what ur saying but it’s both good and bad, like really really good and really really bad, Between him and I it’s always been like that really really good or really really bad it’s literally 50-50 and I’m the kind of person that if the bad overdose the good it’s not worth it anymore but for me it hasn’t reached that point yet I don’t feel like

[Ripper_E]

Well yea. If the negatives outweigh the positives then that's just toxic. Is this a guy you are in a relationship with?

[Theresachemin]

No he’s my ex

[Ripper_E]

Oh. You said messing with your head so I thought it was more intimate than that.

[Theresachemin]

It is but I’m sorry I just don’t wanna get into it

[Ripper_E]

fair enough. Your business. I like your eyes by the way.

[Theresachemin]

Thank you ☺️

[Ripper_E]

what's your ethnicity? You look Asian to me, but that's a very general term.

[Theresachemin]

I’m Filipino and white wbu?

[Ripper_E]

That's awesome. Only Filipinos I've ever met, that I know of, are because of a nearby University. Not many "Asians" where I live to be honest. I am Puerto Rican.

[Theresachemin]

That’s cool where do u live?

[Ripper_E]

I live in the US. Florida.

[Theresachemin]

Cool ur a southerner like me lol I’m in Louisiana

[Ripper_E]

Too hot for me lol I was born in Puerto Rico, but it's too hot for me. I live in the South but I don't sound like it.

[Theresachemin]

Lol I feel ya

[Ripper_E]

You sound like a southerner? Have an accent? lol Never been to Louisiana.

[Theresachemin]

Hearing my voice u wouldn’t assume I was from Louisiana lol I’m very proper lol

[Ripper_E]

No idea what some from Louisiana sounds like. I just know differences in northern vs southern accents. I speak proper, mostly, depending on who I'm with.

[Theresachemin]

Lol cool beans

[Ripper_E]

Did not expect such a long conversation 🤣 What type of guy do you find attractive? or woman, since you are into women as well.

[Theresachemin]

Sorry for the late response lol but honestly mostly light skinned black men who are very attractive with a big dick lol and I find that over the years I haven’t had much trouble getting that lol 🤪

[Ripper_E]

Hey. I didn't know you were going to be that open about what you find attractive lol That's good you've been able to get it. I basically asked because of your question.

[Theresachemin]

lol yeh I didn’t know I was gonna be that open either without being anonymous but here I am 😅😂😂🤣

[Ripper_E]

I forgot about direct messages. I was gonna say the anonymous ship sailed already lol it's cool. I'm not uncomfortable.

[Theresachemin]

Lol 😁

[magiusX26]

too bad i can only vote once because bbw is the only option that i dont find attractive.

[Theresachemin]

Lol I’m actually bbw but I’m not offended by that lol people like what they like lol I certainly have things I don’t like as well lol

[magiusX26]

agreed. there have been a couple of exceptions on tge bbw but those are one offs

[Theresachemin]

Lol one offs? What are those exceptions? 😂

[magiusX26]

took knowing them awhile and more on personality. one was (many many moons ago) a friend, we were talking and both mentioned being horny so we got it on. happened twice with her. otherwise we just stayed friends.

[magiusX26]

the other only partially counts. its a long story that i would really rather not go into. my prefference stems off my mom being a huge woman. took 8 to 10 strong pallbearers at her funeral.

[Theresachemin]

Yeh I’ve noticed personality does assist in being more attracted to someone for sure or at least being more open to the idea of being intimate with that person lol but yeh I may be a big girl but prefer someone average sized lol I just don’t like someone bigger than me lol that just what I prefer lol the great part about that is though is that I’ve never technically had a problem getting what I prefer lol so it usually works out in my favor regardless if bbw isn’t highly looked upon in a general sense to the general public eye or standards lol

[magiusX26]

oh i have known quite a few guys into that, just not typically my thing.

[Theresachemin]

Well like I said people like what they like lol and someone can sit there and tell u all day u don’t know until you’ve tired, the thing is, I’ve tried things I don’t like and the only thing it did for me is confirm that I don’t like it and why I don’t like it 😂😂🥴

[Theresachemin]

Yeh it’s true I know from my own personal tea there are lots of men who love bbw lol

[Andres77]

I like curvy.
I like grabbing ass and fluffy thighs.
My wife is very clean but I much prefer her to be sweaty and sticky at the end of a long day because of her aromas and flavors that she produces.
Plus if she was too skinny I'd probably break her.
I'm 6', she's 5'. We have lots of aggressive fun.

[Andres77]

She likes how we play because I can manhandle her and put her in the positions that she likes to get fucked hard in... we have lots of sweaty stinky fun.

[Andres77]

@theresachemin I really like the curves.

[ChattyGuy43]

I like ladies that have more above and below & I love those thick thighs

[genericname85]

i like somewhat chubby girls. not "fat" though. average i guess. slightly below or above is fine too, though i tend more to "above" than to "below".

[SamKishere]

It depends on the person I’m personally attracted to people my height and taller and really don’t care as much about the skinniness but other guys feel different

[LazyProphet]

I like petite Asians the best, she can be a little thick and curvy though, but I'd choose skinny over (most) bbw.

[Wise4myage]

I chose D because petite women are what attracts me the most, but C is nice too.

[vald9inches]

Both tbh

[kellytheman]

I like all diffrent kinds shape of women but if I have to pick it would be option B. I love a physically fit women with beutiful toned legs. They turn me on so much and can last in sex for a long time.

[dudeinohio]

i like big girls

[hello_kitty_man]

I usually am attracted to their minds and personality.

[Theresachemin]

That’s good to know lol but as far as physical attraction goes is what I’m asking

[hello_kitty_man]

And I was saying that I prefer their minds and personality over physical attributes because body shape changes in time.

[Theresachemin]

Gotcha

[hello_kitty_man]

I will say that you have exquisitely gorgeous eyes in your profile picture.

[Theresachemin]

Thank you 🙂

[hello_kitty_man]

@Theresachemin if you want to follow me, then we can DM each other.

[Joshua213]

Definitely average, being too skin is ugly, and being too overweight is ugly.

[Joshua213]

Too skinny*

[bullforcucks]

Average or petite. Not into bbw / fat

[KrakenAttackin]

BBW means obese... hard pass.

[Theresachemin]

Ur pretty ignorant lol 😂

[KrakenAttackin]

I'm ignorant? BBW means Fat As Fuck.

[Theresachemin]

Yeh ur pretty ignorant lol I asked for opinions, real opinions, not ignorant opinions lol 😂😂

[KrakenAttackin]

@theresachemin. This is a real opinion. BBW is a sugar coated way of saying fat as fuck.