Is it ok if I will never have sex in my life?

[Anonymous]

[nightdrot]

Voted "No," but that does not mean quite what you might imply nor is it broadly true. Rather, the answer is based on statistical norms.

To start, human males need sex as a general rule. The data on this are not in doubt. Males who have sex on a regular basis tend to live longer, are less prone to depression and illness and are broadly happier.

That is rooted in the fact that humans - male and female - have an evolutionary biological instinct to mate and reproduce. When that instinct is satisfied, certain beneficial effects flow from it. In evolutionary terms, it means that you have outcompeted rival males and are able to pass on your sperm and thus your genes to the future.

That is the raw scientific analysis. However, humans are more complicated than that. We have transcended our evolutionary origins and are more than the sum of our biological instincts.

In that sense, is it okay? Of course it is. You have more in your life - for good or ill - than just the need to breed, so to speak. Sex is part of your life. It is not the whole of it and it does not define you nor set limits on what you can achieve, including close friendships and interesting work.

Would it be better if you had sex? Yes, under those circumstances in which you would be comfortable, it would be. However, you have the potential to be more and do more.

So if I were you, I would not dwell on it. Make a good life for yourself. Find friends and interesting work and all the rest - and who knows, along the way that which you thought you may never have you may get.

The irony about human relationships is that they often evolve and develop in ways that we never imagine when we begin them. Also recalling that sex is an important thing - but it is NOT the most important thing.

[OfDeath]

I'd have to say no. Sex is a biological need for mammals and a lack of it can lead to mental and sometimes even physical health problems. Having sex produces vital neurochemistry and is an incredibly effective form of exercise. As long as you do it safely, sex is one of the keys to a long and healthy life.

[Tomsta]

Yes and No. If that was 100% true more asexuals would have physical problems as a lot of them dont engage in sex at all

[Asker]

Yes I agree. But I want just a helthy life , not a long one. For that reason I work out , i cook myself , I do not drink or smoke or do drugs. My will is to live up to 75 years. I think I can do that.

[Tomsta]

Do you not class sex as being "healthy" then?

[Asker]

@Tomsta it is normal and can lead to healthy benefits. I am just saying I am compensating for it's lack...

[OfDeath]

@Tomsta well actually, there is documented evidence that abstinence from sex increases the risk and instance of prostate cancer. In women, long periods of celibacy leads to a tighter vagina and the thinning of vaginal tissue which can result in injury and also increases the chances of infection. By abstaining from sex, one is also eliminating a stress relief opportunity which actually increases the chances of anxiety and depression. So it is true and asexuals are suffering from higher instances of these problems when compared with the general population. You also have to take into account the fact asexuals also deal with social pressure and prejudice which even further increases the risks of succumbing to anxiety or depression and starting a domino effect with ultimately results in physical ailments as serious as cancer.

[YoGirlLeona]

Sex is healthy if you're being safe and using protection. It can also be really intimate with the person you love. It's different if you think you're never going to be able to have sex or if you just don't want to. If you fall in the latter of not thinking you'll be able to, then that may just be a self-esteem issue because I saw one of your replies to another user that you're ugly. As long as you're fit, healthy, and taking care of yourself, you're not ugly. However, if it's more of an asexual thing and you don't want to have sex but just masterbate and release yourself sexually, that's totally fine as well.

[Asker]

I believe it is more in attraction than being healthy , fit and taking care of yourself. Someone can be unattractive not only because of his looks but alsi his/her behaviour. Also these appearance requiriments is not enough in a lot of cases. Personally i know women irl women , that wouldn't date a guy under 6 feet... even if he has 6 pack , even if he us high earning etc... So being fit , healthy and taking care of yourself is the bare minimum , not something that guarantees you that you will make the cut.

[queenfreddie]

What you want to do is the only thing that matters. If you don't want to have sex, then you simply don't have to. It doesn't matter what other people think. Quite frankly, it's none of their business anyhow.

[IronLady6354]

That's really up to you. It's fine with me if you never have sex. If you think it's not big deal then it's pretty OK

[Little_Bumblebee]

Whatever floats your boat. Sex is not for everyone.

[OlderAndWiser]

Its okay with me. Go ask your mother.

[MCheetah]

Yes. Sex is overrated. Though you are way too damn young to even be posting this question. Come back when you're 30.

[Leavesbound]

You'll survive but you might not be happy about it. Your age range says you are under 25. I know people who lost their virginity at 30.

[ItsTheNephilim]

It's OK if you think it's OK.

[Ninjazzed]

Sex is essential, so yes. It’s only ok if you’re not worried about intimacy or fathering kids. Most men make it their priority though.

[Ninjazzed]

**isn’t

[mattissebfan5]

Why do you think that I thought that then I hired a escort when I was 21

[Asker]

I am almost 22.

[mattissebfan5]

Does it bother you a lot or not

[Asker]

No. Little bit. But not a lot.

[mattissebfan5]

So is the question you don't think you'll have sex or you don't want sex

[Tomsta]

If thats how you want to live your life, sure. Noone can tell you if your personal lofe choices are right or wrong

Thoigh part of me would be curious as to why you'd choose abstinance

[Dsg1193]

Sex is overrated

[Twalli]

Why do you think you won't?

[JessieBellll]

Of course

[khayecv02]

That’s up to you if you wana die virgin lol

[Asker]

Is that supposed to be shameful?

[khayecv02]

Nope but I’m just saying.

[YoGirlLeona]

What a stupid bitch. Go die in a hole.

[khayecv02]

@YoGirlLeona after you how

[khayecv02]

Hoe*

[YoGirlLeona]

How could I be a hoe when I don't have an ugly profile picture of a girl with her belly out and also telling someone who doesn't want to have sex that they're going to die a virgin. If anyone is a hoe, it's you.

[khayecv02]

When a stupid cunt calling someone ugly behind a stupid pic? Lmao u got some serious problem woman. Don’t take everything seriously up your ass. When I said “that’s up to you if you wana die virgin” that was a joke dummy

[Asker]

@khayecv02 , @yogirlleona, Stop spitting vitriol in the comment section you two... It is a misunderstanding and I have never been bothered. Case closed !!

[YoGirlLeona]

It wasn't funny, and you can call me a stupid cunt all you want when you can't even form a proper sentence. What drugs are you on?

[Lcksklv98]

Of course, if you dont want to, just dont do it

[Slim57]

That's up to you

[Calgarydirty69]

it won't happen

[3luminaire]

It's your life, if you like it that way it's totally okay.

[Anonymous]

Only if you don't want it or don't care for it.

[Anonymous]

Best option

[Anonymous]

That is the goal of radical lesbian feminists. They want to eliminate people like you from society and from the gene pool. They dream of a Matriarchy ruled by Queers

#QueerNation