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How would you feel if you found out someone masturbated while thinking about you?

I personally can't imagine anybody masturbating while thinking about me, because I don't find myself attractive and I can't imagine anybody else doing so either. It's just my own mind preventing me from imagining it, I think I'm the odd one out here.

But what about you? How would you react? I'd be in a bit of disbelief if someone told me that they jack off to me. Don't know if I'd find it flattering or weird.

Has anyone ever admitted to doing so for you (other than a significant other if you're in a relationship)?
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  • This has never happened to me. I don't think too many people would actually admit to masturbating to a particular person in general let along to the person they masturbated to. Personally I would be flattered and maybe be tempted to suggest some sort of mutually beneficial arrangement. Frankly I'd be excited by the idea.
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    That said, I would say that it is more likely than you think that at some point someone saw something about you that turned them on and masturbated to you. Perhaps you might consider posting a nude photo in a forum some place with a black box covering your face so they can't tell who you are for privacy and then pose the question to see if anyone finds you masturbation worthy. If nobody admits to doing it then you've lost nothing. But even if one person said they masturbated while looking at your image and then told you what about you turned them on that would be a boost to your confidence would it not?

Most Helpful Guy

  • To be 100 % honest you would be the person i would want to think about , because there is a beauty a passion a desire a softness a love a lust innocence about you i feel so deep in your words and through those same word i have to say you are so wrong in the way you think about yourself and someone thinking about yiu , because i look at it even deeper. I believe you would be one of the most beautifil and passionate lover that i probably have ever been with please dont doubt your beauty ur passion or your desire because if you do , you would be hold your self so far back from something that i feel would be so beaut>ful and intense

Most Helpful Girls

  • I would prefer not to know unless I was already being physically intimate with this person. Some guys from dating sites have told me before we even went on a date. It is weird, and I think I never got to have sex with any of them. But that they are doing it is fine, some find me attractive, that is ok, should just keep it to themself. They are mostly fantasising about what they think I am and not what I am anyway.

  • Yes, however I do think it's weird if there isn't at least a mutual attraction between the two of you. But then you also have to take into consideration the fact that there are people out there who jerk it to celebrities, so I guess when you think of it like that, it isn't so weird.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Pleased- and probably flattered. I like making people feel good, and when I can do it without expending any effort, so much the better. I'd consider it a rather high compliment; implying that my mere presence makes the world a better (or at least sexier) place.

  • Depends who. Lol I've heard some freaky stories😳😂

  • Both flattered and creeped out. However, as long as they kept it to themselves I don't think I'd do anything about it.

    • If they kept it to themselves you would not know about it, so you could not do anything about it.

  • Flattered.

  • Can't decide between grossed out and concerned for their physical and mental health, cause if they thinking about me, they are seriously touched in the head and should start seeing a professional.

  • I had a couple people mention it
    But same as you, It seems like there is better options out there haha

  • Hehe depends who lol.

    but not worried, if anything would be nice.

    more so if they were open and told me.

  • Yeah I would be in disbelief too. If it's someone I know and potentially like I guess I could be flattered? But nah, I just can't imagine it 😂

  • How I would feel would depend upon who it is. It would be very different between it being a friend and it being some pervy old guy.

    • One day your friends will be pervy old guys.

    • @pokerbot by then I will be too old to care... haha

  • Flattered!

    Look at it like this, there is approximately 7.5 billion people on planet Earth, roughly divided, half of which are male, the other half female. So to whatever sex you are, there is around 3.75 billion, and of that 3.75 billion they chose YOU, for their most private of private moments. Actually, sounds like quite a complement to be someone's fantasy, for a few moments.

  • Let’s just say as brother and sister twins, you always seem to be doing and thinking about similar things at the same time 🤫🤭

  • It's a little flattering

  • If I don't know that guy personally then I would take that as a compliment. If he is my friend then it would be weird and uncomfortable.

    • From any guy, friend or not, it would be a compliment. I guess the guys who are your friends that masturbate to thoughts of you should not let you know.

    • Well... Considering your sluttyness level... Do you still think that it will be weird to find any guy friends of yours fantasizing about you

  • if i found out any woman had masturbated over me then i would be very happy about it

  • Don't know, don't care. I'm too busy doing my own thing to worry about what other people are doing.

  • In college, I had a class friend, she had a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend. I can say, her name was colleen and my girlfriend was Susan. Her boyfriend was John. In her parents apartment in a ritzy area of town. We sat on the floor and talked. Told her Sue and I had seen a hot movie with a flight attendant masturbating under the covers, after talking to her boyfriend on the phone. Colleen aske me: " Does Sue do that alone or together with you" Bye that, I KNEW that her and John must masturbate together and that she masturbated too. I told her 'yes' that Sue had been masturbating since 8 years old. and when I asked her, she said 'don't ask personal questions" I got miffed and kind of told her off in polite way, "You asked me first so you can answer me "! She agreed. and said she thought her and John had a 'special' sex life. I told her about Sue's bikinis, her hose, garter belt etc (sue wore it because I liked it) I asked her what she wore, and when she did not answer me, I pointed out the waist band of her pantyhose above her jeans, and the waist band of her underpants. Apparently she wore full cover underpants and not bikinis at the time. She was red faced.
    I was about to jump her bones and take her pants off, but she said her mother was due home soon, and "You have to leave" I asked her" When are you going to masturbate again? She said "Probably as soon as you leave"" ? I don't know what she masturbated to, me or the talk, hopefully to me.

    Anyway, long story, about some masturbating to me. I think she probably did. I jacked off when I got home thinking about her pussy and John fucking.

    Hope not TMI

    by the way, I would probably jack off to you !!!

  • I would get extremely horny. Id be flattered too.

  • I would be really turned on.

  • Incredibly flattered.

  • i think somewhere i would be flattered but i'd probably be sarcastic about this

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