Would it be weird to just ask a woman to talk to me while I masturbate? Nothing sexual? Just a normal talk with a fair warning?

I did this with women without them knowing and it felt weird and kinda like rape or something in a weird way to me. So how bout I just announce it beforehand... ha pun totally intended
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  • I've dated a man that did that to me once and it did feel weird, like a stranger flashing you and then them saying that they didn't even though you seen it happened but after it happened I told him that he could've just asked because I for sure would've said yes.
    Yes I do think it would be weird if you do it without asking but if you ask first then it's fine.

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  • It's probably a little weird but it's a lot weirder to do it without her knowing. I know I'd prefer to be asked

    • See I've also seen women who liked knowing but not knowing I was strokin at the same time. It turns some on to not know and find out later so I don't know. Like I love hearing someone was playing themselves while we were talking. Also like the random sounds in mid convo. Its an amazing type of vibe to realize whats going on. But I guess I get it being weird for some too.

    • Too much of a risk tho, a small percentage of people may like it but probably a majority will be uncomfortable and weirded out. Could end up losing friends and getting a bad reputation :/

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  • To me it’s inappropriate af

    • Not talking directly trying to be creepy or anything. Just casually if a guy was to admit he was jacking off when you called and didn't stop. I dont see the actual wrong here other than just an odd moment. If you can explain it'd be great. I understand if they are creepy about and like "yeah called you last night just to hear your voice and sploodge to it." Thats a bit fucked up. Still though, at least for my intentions aren't to harm them in any way

    • Well just knowin he's masturbating while talkin to u turns me off. I had guys do that to me, I hung up. Its innappropriate and uncomfortable. Specially if he's random dude or friend. I would mind less if he was my boyfriend but ya still

    • Mmk fair enough I suppose. I guess best thing to do would be to feel her out through the convo and decide if she "freaky enough" or whatever

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  • I know a girl who would be up for it

  • Literally almost every guy on Wakie app does that. Its so rude. I’d just hangup on them. Its only appropriate if i wanted to have phone sex

    • I mean fair opinion but unless they were harrassing you, how is it so bad? Wtf is Wakie? Lol I used to do it for comfort and just to calm my nerves of talking to a girl in gemeral. Oddly for me it was to help myself care about her more? Like to sit through her whole talk about her week and stuff. It was useful in keeping me focussed so I don't know. Now its pretty much also a fetish but sometimes its stress releaving. I just dont think it always has to be taken sexually.

    • It was rude because i didn't know they were doing it. It was also rude when they asked to do it just while we talk. Basically its rude if we’re not in agreement to tease and bate. But wakie is where you talk to anyone around the world like a phone call. It can last up to 20 mins or less and you talk about anything but most people there just masturbate over the phone now

  • I used to do that with a friend

    • Nice, you thinkits a comon thing?

    • No not really I would often masturbate right in front of her and she would just talk and carry on a conversation like I wasn't doing nothing

    • Thats perfect, I think if you’re with the right people it’s fine for sure and just an odd thing. Those are the minds I want to be around. Everyone just talking in a group masterbating. Like an orgybut a book club

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