Do Guys Like When A Girl Takes Control In The Bedroom?

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OR Do You Prefer To Be In Charge?

GnatSocks · Accepted Answer

I have absolutely no interest in it, like immediate boner killer. I can't explain it, but I mechanically can't even do it. I've tried with switches until we shrug and just move on, and it's like if I'm in charge, we're good to go, and I'm actually attentive to what she likes, but I literally cannot relax like that. Probably the most awkward thing was me trying to put my head in a girls lap that wanted me to, and I'm stiff, breathing heavily, every brain cell was telling at me to get sit up right the fuck now, and she was like "Anon, I don't think you're enjoying this very much." This is how I figured out I'm a Dom. Or have weird mental issues that really need to be worked out. Either way, I can't submit well in the bedroom.

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

It sounds fun to me 😊

volleyball_bigirl · Accepted Answer

Been with a guy that was all about what I wanted and how I felt, it was really nice to not simply be a hole for him.

Siren777 · Accepted Answer

He better be ready for it😜 haha

TonyV · Answer

Sounds fun

AndyOh · Answer

I love it both ways.  Sometimes I like to let her take the lead. I get to see what she likes, and I get to relax and not have to think what should I do next.

RJJ33666 · Answer

I do love aggressive and controlling girls in the bedroom. I would like to take turns, one time she is in control, next time I am in control. But when a girl takes charge in the bedroom is definitely hot.

Harris_sresht · Answer

Both

Dargil · Answer

I prefer to lead but I like a surprise once in a while.

scuff1986 · Answer

I like it to switch up sometimes I like being in control other I like her or him to be in control, keeps things intresting

t-8900 · Answer

Both. I prefer it when she starts and then I finish it dominating her.

mstbooblover · Answer

I rather like the idea of varying who leads. I like at the same time leading for a part and the girl taking initiatives. No real dominance or submission : teamwork I'd say ;0)

Dragonpurple · Answer

I like to switch it up, not exclusive.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I like girls who take control in the bedroom and be aggressive with me in a playful way?

Josh4206 · Answer

Every once in a while, id like it. Not most the time though

Massageman · Answer

I certainly do! I can relax for a change and just "enjoy the rider", er, I mean "the ride". ;- )

Mr1derful · Answer

Absolutely!! So hott!!

REALSTEEL · Answer

i can't answer that never had a girl that wanted control

Dsprthusband · Answer

I love it. I think sometimes they are shy because they think I must want to be in control because that is what other guys do. I love for her to take control, climb on top and make sure she is being satisfied.

soe11 · Answer

Depending on her demands and attitude so on.
With girlfriend she always incharge because she is so attractive and sexy in and out (external and internal), politeness in
conversation as well as body language.
Very much in down to earth.

I hope you got my position.

Nalix · Answer

Yes, but I know most women would rather have me take control. I'm content either way, though I do prefer when she takes control. There are of course details and preferences. I actually enjoy a bit of struggle as she takes more and more control. In fact, I like to pretend that her pussy can control my mind, and penetration becomes a symbol for her taking complete control.

DaveToo · Answer

Either way is good with me.

RileyKing · Answer

on occasion and done well yes its extremely hot

Wiredone · Answer

I love it when both of us are in control at different times. I like to change it up once in a while. It adds a little spice to the relationship

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