It’s a turn off to most guys if a girl has had a lot of sexual partners , mainly for the fact that she might have STD’s , Most guys are
Territorial when it comes to being
In a relationship with a girl , When a guy loves a girl he doesn’t want to think about her getting pounded by other dudes , if he does then he is one twisted fuck , but it’s ok if he pounded other girls lol but he won’t really talk about it out of respect for his current relationship , Girl’s are complete opposite when it comes to talking about their exes , Most guys don’t really talk about their exes unless she talks about hers and then he will throw it in her face as a defense mechanism most guys do not want to hear about her ex and when it comes to Dick sizes Guys are very insecure about their Dick size , so if a girl compliments his Dick size he will feel like he is on top of the world , if she makes a rude comment about his Dick size or if she compares it to her ex it will kill his ego and he will probably be looking to end that relationship or stray The difference between guys and girls is when a guy is in love with a girl he doesn’t talk about his exes to her , he feels it’s disrespectful. He will only talk about his ex if she throws her exes at him. He wants her to feel that she is safe with him and that she is all he cares about , As for girls , Girls are very emotional and for some reason hold on to their exes and talk about their exes like they were this amazing person even though he was the biggest piece of shit , she will still talk about the good times with him to her current boyfriend, that’s a huge turn off for most guys , Word of advice to girls , stop talking about your exes and stop comparing your exes to your current man, killing his ego will make him stray or find someone else with a heart , Your ex is your past period , Exempt them from your life, your new partner is your new chapter in life. Girl’s love to make their men jealous and they feel it’s a turn on to see him get jealous , when really it isn’t , killing his ego will kill your relationship, I saw a funny Meme , The girl screamed Go Deeper!!! And the Guy said Bitch if I could go deeper I would, , you don’t hear me saying get tighter Do you lol So again throw away your past and keep it to yourself , make your partner feel like they are the only one that matters , if you want love to grow don’t get into to much detail about your past , there are some things we have to keep to ourselves , if they question you about it , give them a not so detailed answer , Your past is your past, we are Aren’t perfect people the only way to change for the better is to learn from your mistakes and bury those mistakes , just like you should bury your exes , Mistakes
“Are you afraid of her comparing your d*ck size to her ex? Or are you afraid of not been able to satisfy her?”
pretty much this especially if the guy is a virgin or doesn’t have sex very often he may feel insecure and think he won’t measure up to the previous guys you had sex with.
so if you care just calm him down and assure him that you won’t judge him for a poor sexual performance. Because that is very important to most guys and our egos tend to be tied to that.
There's a bunch of self-conscious men lurking in the comments here. Probably bitter because they spend most of their time in front of a screen because they're too insecure to go out and talk to women face to face. The only reason why men reject girls with a sexual past is simply because they're insecure. A guy has a lot of sex and he's seen as a ladies man, a player and is said to probably be amazing in bed because of all the experience. A girl does the same, and she's a slut. You think a girl having too much sex is gross? Here's a message to men: Sticking your dick in anything that moves can also be quite repulsive. However, most girls don't shame men for having a lot of sex, and that's because we're just not as insecure.
There's nothing wrong with having and enjoying sex. It doesn't say anything about your character or who you are as a person. It simply means you enjoy sex. Believe it or not, a lot of people do. Men have a stereotype of being these "sexual beasts" and everyone's okay with that because we were raised to believe that's a standard. However, when that shifts, it's an absolute war crime apparently.
Yep it is rather noticeable from the comments, a number of repeat offenders lol
I don't know , I don't bring it up unless asked about it.
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If a man was a serial killer before he met you, would you consider dating him, if you agreed to date him would the thought of him possibly killing you be at the back of your mind? I would argue yes.
The same thing applies to your question, if a guy is dating a girl with a lot of sexual partners it means she has a tendency to move around and is more likely to have sex outside of the relationship.
All of this is proven, women who have more sexual partners in the past are more likely to have extra-marital or extra-relational affairs.
Men want kids, getting into a relationship is a HUGE investment, because the reward is worth it, kids you can call your own, if you have a cheating wife you've WASTED your time and energy.
I'm not trying to be edgy but I've dated a guy who went to prison for almost murdering someone so I can tell you I felt safest with him in my life. I was sure no one would even dare to hurt me if I'm with him. And there are 8.2 billion people in this world if you still want to have one more just because he or she will be your own kid than you're just egoistic. And what's wrong in open relationship?
Oh yeah? Go date a guy with a a past of domestic violence and sexual assault charges. Please do that as an experiment. Secondly, yes. I want my own kid. I shouldn't be vilified for stating that.
I will.
A lot I think has to do with insecurity over their own sexual performance.
the more partners means the chances of her having had a bigger cock and or better lover increase.
to me it’s pointless thinking about a partners previous experiences, it adds nothing but can severely damage a relationship
A girl with a lot of past partners
The main things I'd be concerned about is std exposure (more partners=more exposure). Surprise children (not all people are smart and use birth control), the nature of those relationships and how likley she is to cheat.
I would be spending a good chunk of effort into assessing these risks.
I don't see how or why they would be intimidated somebody's personal sexual past it's just that who you have been with no matter their dick size who cares is he afraid to take you can't please you then that means you're afraid of everything in life that means they have no confidence that means they have no Insight or vision how to even go about it and if you were intimidated by anybody that made you scared and if you're scared you're not going to please anybody anyway I still don't get the whole thing anyway I think it's quite funny myself
I'm not intimidated by it, and I'm actually a little bigger than most, but she's more at risk of having a disease, less likely to pair bond, more likely to see me as a sex toy, rather than a person, and even your question is all about if a guy would please you. It's just like a weird obsession with sex rather than trying to find someone to start a family with. Plus, it's a community jizz hole. Why would I want to say it's my community jizz hole?
I'm not. It means I won't have to teach the girl much and I probably won't have to talk her into some of my unusual interests.
My dick is 2" long due to partial amputation when I was a kid. Either the girl is ok with it or she's not and usually by the time I get done with my tongue she doesn't care.
You could be confusing intimidation with them being turned off. I've quietly rejected quite a lot of women for this reason, but a lot of guys don't care. But I also notice that the guys that don't care, tend to be the ones looking for friends with benefits or hookups.
We're not ''afraid''.
It's a couple of reasons.
-If I want a serious relationship, which means to get married, I wants marriage material.
The more she's been around, the more likely she is to potentially cheat, as she'll have less discipline when it comes to wanting to be intimate.
-And secondly, if she's already been with a few people, the reality is, you're more or less, just another person she's been with. There's nothing special about it.
Why are so many women so arrogant that the only reason for being rejected by a guy that they can possibly conceive of is that he's "intimidated" by them?
Maybe it has nothing to do with "intimidation", but rather, we just think it's gross and reflects poorly on your character.
Don't bother me at all. Personally i think it's just a lot of guys are pretty close minded but there free to be so if that makes them happy.
I'm not afraid of a strong sexual past in the women I'm attracted too
In fact, that's one of the reasons I'm often attracted to women five to fifteen years older then myself.
My personal opinion on your question, is pretty much covered by your above comments. Men are very sensitive about their penis size for one thing, so you are spot on on that one. Personally, to get it out of the way, I have asked a girlfriend about just that ! My girlfriend dumped me, and six months later wanted to hook up again. She had fucked two guys from her work place. In our conversation, I asked her how my penis compared. She told me !
Back to question, I think they are intimated. My experience tells me that most, not all, women are not satisfied with penetration, and that size and shape don't matter as long as his penis is very stiff and hard.
Secondly, I prefer to go down on a woman and most women do like that. Probably a lot of men are insecure with eating pussy. and they are afraid they might fail in that area too.
Not sure if I really answered your question, but certainly men are intimidated by an experienced, because they are insecure about their own sexual experience (or lack of it)
You seem to think the only reason could be if the guy is worried that he's smaller than your ex but I don't think most guys give a shit about your ex's dick unless it transmitted an STD or you constantly compare it to to ours.
Concerns about her cheating.
I can't speak for other men, but I know that I'm turned off by a promiscuous past, not because I'm intimidated by it, but because of what it implies about her personality and character. If someone, not just women, if ANYONE has a past like that, it demonstrates a lack of self control and self worth.
Having high libido is lack of control and self worth? Lmao
I believe so, yes. Lemme put it to you like this: what's the reason that you choose to invest so much of your time and energy into having sex and trying to have sex? Why not a hobby like photography or crocheting?
Hobby will make my libido low? Are you a special kind of man?
well you know that it's her "past". how does he know?
It's not "intimidation", it's *disgust*.
Also, girls way overuse that word "intimidation" -- just stop. 99% of the time it's not what's happening, it's more for the emotional security of women than an accurate description, just like calling it a "strong sexual past".
Anyway, they're *disgusted* by those women's pasts. That's all.
It's just gross. That's all their is too it. It's just another unattractive trait, just like having messed up teeth, or a bad odor, or being a liar, or being cruel, or being fat.
I bet they aren't very experienced and they think you will notice and turn you off.
For my own safety and sanity. I'm a virgin; why should I have to deal with the baggage you bring from your past sexual history? How could that be fair to me?
What baggage?
Kids, ex, disease, things like that.
Lmao, nice projection.
Well i am more afriad that she may lie to me about her being clean than being compared to her sexual partners
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