Would you be turned off by this?

i'm really insecure and embarrassed about my body, i'm kinda skinny' i'd say average, a cups which i don't really mind but my areola is kinda big and i really hate it, it's just so unattractive
i also have a ton of strech marks all over, on my tits, ass, hips i just can't look at them without getting sad or frustrated

my nipples are puffy, kind of big, you can clearly see the hole in the middle, they're flat usually unless you play w them (the nipples are soft and inside, so ther'ye not pointy and you can't really see them like that) but when they're hard those little dots show up as well
i have these ugly red-purpled strech marks on the sides and underneath
and my ass is literally covered w white strech marks

i'm just really ashamedof this, i'm 18 and can't see myself opening up to someone on the romantic level so i'm absolutely terrified about getting intimate w someone
i have this guy friend that over all we're very open w each other and whenever we talk about bodi image and stuff he tells me that i should'nt worry and natural is pretty but i did'nt specify, kind afraid he'd be grossed out if he found out

do guys really mind? is this really that bad? am i just making a big deal out of this?
i know that everyone's different but from your prespective pls
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  • I always thought big nipples are more attractive 😏
    The stretch marks are no trouble either. I have them on my bum (for as long as I remember myself, even though I've always been quite skinny), but trust me, almost no one notices them. No one takes a magnifying glass and examines your body. They all see the big picture. That is to say the beauty.
    Have you read Gulliver's Travels? There's a scene where Gulliver is in the land of giants and some women strip down in front of him. He feels repulsed by what he sees. Says it's interesting how something so attractive can look so disgusting when you look at it closely.
    Put away your magnifying glass and enjoy your body.

    • I have to completely agree with your first statement! And the rest of your opinion for that matter.

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  • It took me years to summon up the courage to get intimate. I was worried about what anyone would think about my body - almost flat chest, tiny bum, still need a waterproof mattress protector, just generally insecure about myself.
    Once I took the plunge to be open I have an amazing life with my fiancé, and while nothing about my body has changed my mindset is totally different.
    There's nothing you can do about your body, but if you find the right person they will love your body because of the person inhabiting the body.

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  • It’s really not something to worry about.

    your friend is correct just like boobs come in all shapes n sizes, the nipples on them are also varied.

    We all in the real world have different body shapes, some wrinkles, bumps, bellies, scars etc.

    all that’s makes us simply real people.

    you should really lovely.

    be confident with what you have, guys will also love it.

  • I've never heard anyone say they are happy with everything about their body, so it sounds like you are perfectly normal. All nipples and areolas are unique and beautiful. Personally I prefer large ones but they are never a deal breaker. A good guy that's into you won't care what yours or the rest of you looks like. What's most important is what you do with your body and your personality.

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  • I think you will be surprised how many guys understand all that and do not expect perfection.

  • OK stop right there. You just described the perfect breasts. Why don't you like them? don't worry about the stretch marks. We all get them eventually. Basically you had me at big puffy nipples. You could, if you were so inclined, make a fortune in porn just filming your breasts.

  • You sound attractive. Screw guys and just do other girls

  • Everything you described about your breasts and body is perfectly normal and not imperfections in any way.

  • You're fine hun, stretch marks are normal. Dare I say, there's almost no women after puberty on this planet that doesn't have some form of stretch marks - especially on their hips and their buttocks. You're beautiful the way you are, and nipples tend to get soft when you're warn and hard when you're cold or turned on. It's completely normal.

    • Jesus I meant warm* not warn.

  • I would not. I don't want to go over each item but I do have an attraction for "dimpled nipples". Fondness/love, not body features, cement a relationship. Concentrate on your character and none of your "flaws" will matter.

  • Your body is better than most because you're the right shape. Small breasts are cute.

    Don't worry about stretch marks, they're just stripes. Tigers have stripes, does it make them look bad, fuck no, tigers look awesome.

  • From the sounds of it you have an attractive body. Be confident.

  • Big dark areolas are sexy and very erotic don’t matter about the size quality is it

  • It doesn't sound like anything to worry about. Everyone had things about their bodies they would like to change. You will find someone who thinks you are awesome just the way you are.

  • That wouldn't turn me off at all.

  • That reduced my attraction towards you by 0.23%... Yeah that's all..

  • No. But don't worry about me, focus on changing your own self-thinking!

    Next time you snuggle (if you are at that level in your relationship with him), wear a looser top and slide his hand under your top. I'm reasonably sure that he won't mind.

  • xD don't understand that as a creepy attempt to get nudes... but it's really hard to judge without having some visual. for all i know, what you described could look nice or not in my experience from what i've seen.

  • You are gorgeous. Dont sweat the small stuff doll.

  • Looks do matter. They're just not all that matters.

  • It's a damn shame you've got such a low self-image, you sound like a beautiful young woman.

  • Honestly your body sounds very attractive. What sounds less attractive is your perception of yourself. Luckily that can change!

  • You're probably just over thinking this. Im sure ots not this bad

  • Nothing is more off putting than shame and insecurity. How can anyone love you if you don't love your self...

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