Is it wrong to break it off with someone because they refuse to fulfill your sexual desires?

I've been texting this girl I met online for a month. We were only on speaking terms, the relationship wasn't official and we never met in person. I decided that we should talk about sex. It may seem early to talk about sex within the first month, but I just wanted to get it out of the way and come to an agreeance so there's no surprises in the future. Talk about what we want, what we will never do, yata yata yata. I started to talk about my desires first to break the ice and encourage her to share. I admitted that I have a foot fetish and I want my face sat on, and she said "THAT'S DISGUSTING!! I'm NOT DOING THAT!!" So I replied "Then I don't want to be in this relationship", and she put my ass on BLAST!! She called me nasty, disgusting, gross, pervert, no girl will do that for you, you're going to die alone, you should just forget about your desires because it's never going to happen, you can have a rubber foot and ass and have your sick pleasure with those but not with me. I only got that far before I blocked her. That happened 3 days ago and I'm still thinking what the hell!! Is it wrong for me to have fetishes? Why did she feel the need to dog me out? I think group sex, open relationships, scat, and flings are gross, but I'll never disparage people who like that because they have their desires just like I have mine. Am I trippin' here? Should I bottle up my desires and get into an unhappy relationship?
NOT WRONG AT ALL, GET WHAT YOU WANT
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COMPLETELY WRONG, FUCK YOUR DESIRES
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  • Chill man!.. You aren't wrong!. That girl was just try to break your confidence so you break down and accept being in an unhappy relationship!.. Don't fall for her trap! Most girls are living in romantic fantasy books.. Or the idea that their dad called them "Princess" so they are princess.. They don't have guts to deal with reality!. Like @Agape93 ( tagging you become you stayed this shit) . And when reality hits such girls in face.. Such girls retaliate by trying to hurt other people's emotions by punching random buttons of whatever they can get their hands.. Never bottle up your desires, be honest about them.. It's better to be single than be in a miserable relationship... There are girls out there who would do the desires you want and equally enjoy it... But what you need first is Money.. Become a Millionaire!.. Money is not to give it to her. But money is to provide for all her needs so she does not Needs to focus on providing for herself... And than she can provide for your unique needs and you will be happy!..

    • Also why the fuck you go anonymous... Foot fetish and wanting be sat on.. Are very common and clean desires.. There are people with In3st, schoolgirl, femdom, Zoophilic, beastility, necrophilic, scatophilia... You are one of the remaining good guys.. With until she comes across a man who wants to eat her shit!.. Or wants her to play dead in bed... Or wants to call her mommy in bed... Or wants her to dress like an Animal and make animal noises while having sex.. 😂🤣😂🤣 @Agape93 don't write in here.. Just inviting you to read.. Not asking your ¢*/\/T opinion.. 😂🤣😂🤣

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  • It was too early to talk about sex because you hadn't even met once. For many people, simply talking about sex requires a level of trust that comes with spending time together in this case, waiting would not have made a difference and the result would have been the same, so you daven some effort that would have been wasted if you had dated.

    You have the right to have a partner who satisfies your desires. She has the right to not be with a partner who she thinks is disgusting. She didn't need to go postal on you but some women do that on the subject of sex.

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  • Absolutely not. Everyone deserves to have their sexual desires fulfilled (to an extent). There's someone for everyone, and there is going to be someone whose sexual desires will align with your own. It's not wrong to end a relationship because you know what you want, and that the person you're with cannot give it to you.

  • I'm not sure that it's wrong, but I do think it's unnecessary. Sexual issues in a relationship usually can be fixed with enough time and effort.

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  • I understand how you feel. If you can't be satisfied then it is better to break it off before it gets worse because you won't be happy. I am open-minded when it comes to fetishes but there are some people who aren't and your ex girlfriend is one of them. It is for the better that you broke up with her. but that is my perspective.

    • She wasn't an official girlfriend, we've only been talking for a month before this.

    • if that is the case then that is more reason what you did was right. I have seen people break up over something as simple as not liking my favorite football team, not liking a political party, and even as small as having different shampoos.

  • Foot fetishes and face sitting are not that out of the ordinary.

    I am not one for foot play and yeah I would not be a good match for someone who was really into it. But I'm not going to start to berate the person for their kink.

    I've been told off for not being into it before, but screw that guy. Me desires are just as important as his.

    Just find someone who is into the same things as you. Or is willing to indulge you from time to time.

  • Do her a favor and break up with her now.

    • I did.

  • Good thing you found out that you weren’t compatible before getting too deeply involved.

  • Absolutely not. Unless you want a shitty relationship.

  • Good job, then, that I've never dated; I would have reacted similarly if I met a girl and she asked me for oral sex.

  • wrong to talk like that to someone you've never met

  • That's understandable if it's something important to you