Is he using me for blowjobs?

Question

So my guy bestfriend and I were hanging out watching a movie and he out of nowhere got a boner and asked for a blowjob. I then gave it to him. Now he texts me with messages saying he can’t wait for his next blowjob..
does this mean he likes me or is he just using me?

Hamsterdam64 · Accepted Answer

i feel it a little creepy that he got a taste, and now has an expectation, or at least hope this will be a regular thing. i don't know if it means he does or doesn't like you. If every encounter comes with the expectation of a BJ, i would question things a bit, and place some boundaries. Given it sounds as if it was friends first, that could get sticky in a hurry. If this was the first intimate encounter... wow, what a way to jump from friends to much more. i would not ask that of a female friend normally at all, unless there was a very clear indication, and even then, i'd want a discussion on how these things ruin friendships, all for an orgasm.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Did he say Hi how are you do you say can we go out to dinner did he say hey what are you doing can I come over and let me wash your car I mean did he say anything else except for I can't wait till you come over to BJ me she didn't have at least two to five minute conversation with you before he even said that everytime the f*** off when's the last time he did something for you anyting do you know what guys like BJ's because they're f****** lazy it's all about them they're selfish when's the last time you gave you an orgasm me a really really really good orgasm

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

you have to ask yourself did you enjoy giving him a blowjob? the answer is he enjoyed getting a blowjob from you because he's asking for more... and it seems it's about a blowjob... would you mind him meeting you for just blowjobs and hanging out? personally i think he likes you or he wouldn't want a blowjob from you there's some attraction especially if he got a boner from you and you were just innocently sitting there in your mini dress... to answer your question i think he likes you or he wouldn't want more from you.

Jasmin0701 · Accepted Answer

Depends on the guy. It could be that he really likes you, but I think he's more interested in getting blowjobs from you.

LiamSawyer · Answer

He certainly liked the blow job, possibly he's liked you for quite awhile but didn't know how to approach the situation.

Dargil · Answer

Sounds like he considers you a service provider.

RealMarek · Answer

The only way to know is to ask him and to see how he treats you. Is he affectionate? Does he want you to be satisfied sexually too?

beldath · Answer

He obviously liked you enough to ask for one. My guess is that he was just seeing what your reaction would be. Ask him to go down on you some time and see what happens.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Both

Tunasub · Answer

Well you gave him a blowie because he asked? Hmmmm let me think. Just for shits and giggles, if out of nowhere he gave you 20 bucks and a week later you say I can't wait for the next 20.. would you be using him for 20 bucks? Another question. Would you like another guy friend to watch movies with? Asking for a friend 🤦🏾‍♂️

rad___lad · Answer

If he does not like you, how does that make him use you? If you two have been good friends before that then everything should be fine. He just thinks greatly of you that you wanna help him get off. Maybe you could ask him to do something for you aswell? Like, this sounds more like the start of friend with benefits then him using you honestly!

MountAverage · Answer

What you described is not friendship.

dazzinu69 · Answer

I wanna be friends lol

bullforcucks · Answer

Probably. I've used friends for just head before. If you don't want to continue just tell him that. If you don't mind it, just do it and make him happy.