How do you cleanup yourself/bed immediately after sex?

I come from a different culture which is more obsessed than the US about washing. Me and my wife are always wondering what happens after sex? Do you just lay down on the bed without being worried that bed gets dirty by the cum? Or you carefully change the sheet and wash yourself? Or maybe you don't even let anything spill on the bed? Give me your answer considering using condoms vs not waering them.
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  • I am a very clean person most of the time but for sex, I don't care as much. If my partner and I are having sex on the bed then normally we will just put a blanket down covering everything. We have these super fuzzy/soft blankets to make it comfy! Then if it's before bed we will just fall asleep on the blanket so if there are any leaks and such during then right it only gets on the blanket. If the blanket is not too messy we will just fold it up for another use and wash it when it's dirty. Works great our sheets stay clean.

    • A very good answer to a question i didn't know i needed to know.. Thanks for the idea.. will come in handy

    • @Brownbored It works greats! I recommend getting a thicker fuzzy blanket because it's soft and comfy so sex is more enjoyable and it takes a lot for a mess to leak through.

    • Lol tmi but yes u r right

  • If it's someone that I'm seeing casually Usually just go pee and then take a shower. If it's a partner of meny years sometimes nothing, just fall asleep. Like... I see you're asking the question in a context of having sex once and that's it. I like to do it more than once, so that would imply that if I happen to wake up at 3am and have have to get up and shower again.. and then in the morning again? It's not convenient when you like to go more than once

    • That's exactly why I'm asking this question. Convenient vs being clean. I feel you, but can stop thinking about the dirtiness I'm sleeping in! That's why I have to wash myself each time and sacrifice the convenient. If condom is used throwing it away and using a towel would work too (Still, I wash myself)

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  • Never do... unless it's me going down on her after.
    And I try to wake her up with oral in the morning... she's extra funky and I love it

  • Rubbing alcohol and shower

  • If I know we’re staying in bed for the night, I have him pull out on my stomach. It’s less messy to clean off my stomach than to have cum leaking out of me all night.

  • We have sex on a towel so no mess.

    • Same.

  • Sheet is changed or towel (if she is on her period)

    • Normally, we don't sex during period. I thought that's universal!

    • I do it

    • I don’t use conforms with my wife

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