How to ask him to choke me?

Been out on 2-3 dates with this guy that I'm super into. The thing is, the only time we had sex it was kinda vanilla for my taste. It was just one time so I didn't go too crazy because I was sort of testing the waters and trying see how he's like in bed. I like very rough, passionate sex but to be honest I never had to request it, and he was a little too soft for me... I don't know
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  • That’s a tough one. Not because I wouldn’t love to help her get off, but because chicks are all Fuck’n Nuts!!! Say that I decided, that I didn’t like the shit that you pull in the relationship and I dumped your Ass. You could go to the cops and say that I choked you and you’d have the marks on your throat! I don’t trust you crazy bitches! Unless we were in a long relationship and people were aware of our wild rough sex..

Most Helpful Guy

  • Communication is key. Next time, just say what you like. Guy probably just doesn't want to assume. Especially when it comes to rough stuff, it's better not to assume. Y'know? Very quickly turns to rape allegations if you guess wrong.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Give it time. It's still so early.
    You can always say he can go rougher, harder.

    Maybe at some point move his hand towards your throat. - Though choking can be scary for some.

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  • Step up your game and see if he responds.

  • "choke me". simple as that.

  • let him bang and know ur taste and he will then go rougher and bang u harder making u choke.. let him know during conversation that u like it rough and harder and he would make u scream his name loud while banging u

  • He was probably a bit softer than he typically is because it was your first time. If you do it again, tell him to be rougher

  • I'm not sure about him but I'm very passionate guy in bed who loves rough sex, dominating lady, having multiple rounds 😜😏
    But I can't find a lady who appreciate, loves and wants me in her bed 😏

  • May be he was nervous and trying to do things right rather than push the boundaries... on your very first attempt.

  • Just ask him and be open with your kinks

  • Just ask... or show him some porn that depicts what you like

  • Use the last two words of this question.

  • Just ask him

  • Tell him you want him to be rougher and you have an idea

  • Every guys want one woman same like you but he can't realise that, you deserve really hard fuck..

  • Conversation is relashionship's best friend. Just tell him and ask him if he agrees. Enjoy the rough sex, afterward.

  • He might be the same way.. Just feeling you out, so to speak the first time. Ask questions and hint around in a conversation before y’all start getting busy and see how he responds. And I mean way before y’all get down, not right before.

  • Most guys are dominant so you arer fine