Boyfriend confess that changed smtg in me?

My boyfriznd and I were living a very happy 5 month relationship, I am virgin and I thought he was too, we had some AMAZING non sexual experiences, our relationship is fusionnal, we love each other and we can have an orgasm just by SexTelephone.. etc..
But he told that me he had sex once, and now I feel so weird, so bad, I can’t stop imagining him with someone else, even if he told me that it was one time years ago and that he didn't like it, it was very basic.. but with me it’s very different and he adores it even if we never had sex (I believe this part cause honestly I drive every boy crazy 😜) I’m between two ideas : one = believe him two = Not believe him
I don't know, can guys not like a sexual experience? Even if they have an orgasm? Or is he telling me this just to make me feel better..
i can't stop thinking about scenarios between him and someone else and it hurts
PS: I’m a BOMB 💣
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Superb Opinion

  • Ejaculating can be anywhere from earth-shatteringly good to a relief it is done with so you can file your taxes or something else more exciting.

    Now granted usually it would be some level of enjoyable but it absolutely can be really lacking. There is this common misconception that ejaculation is by default also orgasm for men. While it often go hand in hand they are different things.

    • Do you think I should believe him?

    • He told that he prefered masturbating above this sex

    • I’m hurt I don’t know what to think

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Most Helpful Guy

  • He cannot erase his past. It was something that happened and he has moved on. You might someday find yourself in the same situation. Try to concentrate on what you have now. He was brave to confess this to you. He could have just lied about it.

    • What about me in all this? Should I trust him?

    • I think so. Ask him if it's over.

    • It is It was 3 years ago

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Most Helpful Girl

  • He enjoyed it most likely and yes is just telling you this to make you feel better because you placed a huge thing on him being a virgin b4 meeting u

    • That’s very mean

    • You asked and I told you the truth. It's not mean it's reality

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  • Well at least he told you the truth

    • That doesn't answer the other questions

  • He can be telling the truth. I didn’t like my first time.. Yes, I got it up and had an orgasm, but I wish I had waited and done it with someone else. I was just trying to get rid of the virgin stigma so my buddies would quite ragging on me.

    • Why didn’t you like it? What do you think about my position and how should I feel?

    • I can’t say I HATED it, it did feel good, haha! But had I waited just 6 more months, my first time would have been with my first real love. And that would have been better. How should you feel? I understand it completely. I can’t really tell you how you should or shouldn’t feel, although I completely understand. I will say though, that after you move on, and have more Relationships, You will have sex partners in your past, and they still have them in theirs. It won’t bother you that they have (in fact, after you are disappointed by a guy or two for being a 2 minute rookie, you may appreciate that they have some exp., haha!). If you REALL REALLY REALLY like the guy, and he REALLY REALLY REALLY likes you, take his word for it and try to enjoy the fact that you will be the first one he did it with that meant something. If not, wait for that guy to come along.