Would you consider sexting cheating?

Question

I’d be interested to know, would you mind your partner sexting other people. Is any aspect too far eg: sending nudes? Thank you!

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

well a thing is only cheating if it's done behind someone's back, and they wouldn't be okay with it. So longs if you ask that person first hand then it's purely subjective to there answer.

Me personally? Only if there doing it for money really, like they have a onlyfans account or something and had to flirt with people who paid and all that. If it's business not personal i don't actually have a problem with it.
Same for strippers and etc, I always find it funny when a guy gets with a stripper but then get upset there job is a stripping... it's like huh? ya already knew that going in and it's just a job really.

It becoming personal though is kinda hurtful cause it's like well why can't you sext the person you so call want to be with? Would have to be a good answer to that for me to consider it been okay.

The key is always disusing what's okay and what's not with your partner really, longs if it's all agreed then it's not wrong.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Yes if your flirting and hot sex talk with a guy and you have a boy friend it's kinda like cheating do you have a boyfriend and do you want to sext

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well to me cheating is if you do something that is not agreed upon in the relationship. So he should talk to me about it before sexting.
I actually think I could allow that, but only text, no videos or pics, more anonymous this way, should not be someone he knows in real life. Might as well be someone from another country, so if he went for that it would be fine.
Sexting is not a turn on for me, so if he has a special thing for that he can enjoy it with some strangers.

just_a_potato · Accepted Answer

I think of it as cheating, but even if I didn't I made a rule for myself. If he were to do what I'm considering, would I be angry? Sad? If yes then I won't do it. I use it all the time in a lot of my daily relationships.

AustinMan · Answer

Nope.

devilish-cutie · Answer

I wouldn't call that cheating but its completely disrespectful unacceptable behavior

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Yeah, I would not be okay with that at all

Red_Arrow · Answer

Cheating is doing something without your partner's knowledge or consent. If your partner is okay with it and you are completely open about it, then it is not cheating.

Aurora1010 · Answer

Yes, it's obviously cheating

I_love_you_3000 · Answer

Yes. Definitely. 10000000000000000000000000000%

ChocoBrowny · Answer

It is if the intention is to act on those desires by meeting up and usually both are. It's a lot more than flirting for sure.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Yeah.

girlzruleboyzdrool · Answer

Most definitely  The ones saying no have done it or will do it. If you don't like the person you're with and looking for attention from others and seeking elsewhere, hit the road