Why didn’t my friend’s wife care about using the toilet in front of me whilst I was shaving at the sink?

Question

I’m staying with my friend and his wife for a few weeks until my house has finished being renovated, long story short about 10 minutes ago I heard a knock on the bathroom door and I said yes as I would usually do and I heard my friends wife ask if I was in the bath and I said no just shaving and she came in, pulled her panties down, lifted up her skirt, sat on the toilet and took a leak in front of me, wiped then go up as if nothing happened. Am I a bit prudish or should that sort of thing be kept for a husband’s eyes only?

Answer 1

Red_Arrow | 9.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Some people are just that much at ease. Or maybe she wanted to give you a show. I would not worry about it. I am just curious why she asked if you were in the bath. She probably still would have come in. Now will you go in to pee while she is showering?

Answer 2

OrdinaryDaniel

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At the moment I would have asked why she is doing that? It is possible she lives life too freely and carelessly but I don't know your friend's wife enough to know. Whatever the reason is, she still shouldn't have stepped into your privacy like that without at least asking for permission from you. I suggest if she does it again or sometimes similar. I would confront her and ask her about it and see what she has to say.

Answer 3

loves2learn | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Some people don’t have boundaries around that sort of thing. I had a friend who changed in front of me and her boyf. It was super awkward because he was getting turned on. Not like we hadn’t changed in a locker room before, but it felt very awkward.

Asker

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Do you reckon my friend would be annoyed if he knew I saw his wife do that?
loves2learn

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He probably knows she doesn’t have boundaries around that.

Answer 4

Asker

Do you reckon my friend would be annoyed if he knew I saw his wife do that?

Answer 5

loves2learn

He probably knows she doesn’t have boundaries around that.

Answer 6

Wowie101 | 137 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Well honestly I don’t think anything into it. She just had to pee... if it was something more than that I’m sure you have noted it... So be adult about it and just let it go

Answer 7

zollo | 475 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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lol uuuh that's quite a comfortable person. I wouldn't do that with a best friend or my sister let alone my husbands friend. She wasn't even drunk or anything lol.

Asker

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Nope

Answer 8

Mac-One | 167 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Apparently not a big deal for her as you didn't really see anything. Everything is neatly concealed between her legs and not exposed to you as long as she is discrete about it.

Mac-One

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There is actually no logical reason why people should not be able to pee comfortably in front of people of the opposite sex. Men actually have to expose more than women if they stand and even if they sit.
Asker

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I saw her pubic region when she was sitting down and her bum when she got up

Answer 9

Mac-One

There is actually no logical reason why people should not be able to pee comfortably in front of people of the opposite sex. Men actually have to expose more than women if they stand and even if they sit.

Answer 10

Asker

I saw her pubic region when she was sitting down and her bum when she got up

Answer 11

Runnerc838

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My wife used to do that to me, but it's interesting that his wife did that in front of you. 😂
You're a guest in their home, I wouldn't say anything about it.
Did it bother you or something?

Answer 12

Moonlight31

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Is there only 1 bathroom?

She probably just didn't care just had to go & it's her home. I get its a little odd but it's nothing to overthink.

Asker

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Yes just one, but I’m worried my friend will be angry if he knows I’ve seen his wife’s behind and thighs.
Moonlight31

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Hmm if he does just tell him you were shaving noticed what she was going to do & you looked away. Caught you off guard but didn't want to make a big deal of it cuz its her house & you are just a guest.
Asker

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I can’t imagine he’d be angry with me, but angry with her tbh. I’d be angry with my wife is another man saw her body, I’d personally feel whilst married to her only I should be able to see that

Answer 13

Asker

Yes just one, but I’m worried my friend will be angry if he knows I’ve seen his wife’s behind and thighs.

Answer 14

Moonlight31

Hmm if he does just tell him you were shaving noticed what she was going to do & you looked away. Caught you off guard but didn't want to make a big deal of it cuz its her house & you are just a guest.

Answer 15

Asker

I can’t imagine he’d be angry with me, but angry with her tbh. I’d be angry with my wife is another man saw her body, I’d personally feel whilst married to her only I should be able to see that

Answer 16

Poppymarie | 418 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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That’s definitely weird in my opinion

Why didn’t my friend’s wife care about using the toilet in front of me whilst I was shaving at the sink?

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