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What to do if your dad finds your vibrator?

y'all I'm freaking out. I'm 18, live with my parents and went to LA with my mom for college tours. And then my dad calls us up like "hey I'm cleaning your room." And I left my damn rabbit vibrator on my bed under a pillow. I almost had a panic attack during the phone call and begged him not to clean my room... and my parents were like "what is wrong with you." Like he's doing me a favor. So now I'm here like oh god. I'm assuming he'll find it... so... I'm just scared out of my mind. Should I even worry about it? Do dads even care? I mean I'm a virgin so i'm not sexually active at all... I'm not really doing anything that would kill me... it's just really embarassing... but I feel like it could be worse... like hard drugs or a pregnancy test... but still really embarassed about it.
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  • It’s embarrassing but it will pass. In his place, I’d just smile and let it go. He knows you’re a grown woman and he knows grownups masturbate because he is one and he does, too. Unless you live in a puritan household, it will blow over. It’s only as big a deal as you make it.

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  • Don't freak out. If he says anything, tell him it's none of his business.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don’t be embarrassed at all. I think all dads now they’re girls enjoy toys. If you’re an open family he will just tell you he put it away somewhere safe for you. If you don’t usually talk about these things I expect he will just put it away and not say a word.

  • Hiding your vibrator under your pillow is not a good idea lol. I don't think your dad will make an issue if he finds it. He'll be more embarrassed than you.

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  • Eh, as an adult who is dating someone with a teenaged daughter; I wouldn't worry about it, too much.

    I mean, sure, it's embarrassing, but unless your parents are incredibly stuffy, he's not going to care, and probably won't even mention it. If I was in that situation, I'd be glad that she's not out having casual sex with half the neighborhood.

    He's a guy, he knows about masturbation, so it's probably not going to be a huge shock to him.

  • It probably will embarrass your dad as much as it embarrasses you and he probably won't say a word about it.

  • He's very unlikely to find it under your pillow. If he did find it I can almost guarantee you he would put it back exactly where he found it and you would never know about it.

  • Funny thing is dads tend to know this stuff goes on and just live with it.

    it’s to be expected, that’s the least of things we worry about lol.

    don’t sweat it.

  • That's is embarrassing.

    Don't mind that, don't bring it up and move on.

    This should be a lesson. Keep ur shit in a good spot.

  • You have nothing to worry about.
    Parents know their kids are sexual beings and one of the aspects of adulthood is the recognition of who all of us are without having to say anything. We also silently realize "Yeah, that could be me too."

    So, don't worry.
    If you were my daughter and I found your vibrator, I wouldn't say a thing. I'd probably even be proud a bit.

  • Ask him if he wants to borrow it?

  • He won’t say ne thing

  • You are an adult. Unless your dad is an asshole, he will say nothing.

  • If I were in your place I would probably die from cardiac arrest. That probably didn't help huh, he probably doesn't care and hasn't touched your bed?

  • No Dad with a functioning brain will clean up after his almost adult kids.
    I think, they're pulling your leg :)

    • I was surprised too. But he kinda does annual house cleaning and completely cleans everything... it just had to be now.

    • I don't know YOUR father. What I'd do myself: I'll tie a nice coloured ribbon to your toy and leave it where it is. Otherwise, just enjoying your reaction/s :D

  • Maybe he won't even notice that's a vibrator. Just forget about it.

  • He doesn't care. Just ignore it. You'll see.

  • Don't worry about it

  • I guess you think your dad doesn't know what a vibrator is, and thinks that you'll never have sex with anyone, ever, because you're his little girl. He'll probably laugh and never mention it IF he finds it.

  • Don’t worry about it. If he finds it maybe he will stop cleaning in your room. Or he will be cool about it and just let it go. But all dads know that there daughters do shit.

  • If I ever accidentally found my teen daughter's vibrator I'd just leave it where I found it and never mention it to her lol. I wouldn't be too embarrassed it's pretty normal for a young girl to have a toy or two

  • Relax. He would be just as embarrassed as you if he found it, so what would he even say? Probably nothing. Just hide it better from now on, lol.

  • If he doesn't know you masturbate he's stupid. Knowing you use a toy shouldn't be that surprising. It's only embarrassing if you make it embarrassing. If he asks, I would say that you should own it. I did the same when my mom found my fleshlight.

  • Stop panicking first off! Second you’re a grown woman and he should realize this and that you have your own sexual desires. If he finds it just be cool about it and tell him that you are human just like everyone else and if it wasn’t for sex between you and mom I would not be here. But seriously calm down have a beer.

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