Why do people say just find a hookup it's rather easy? Like I can barely get a date do you think I'm going to get a hookup anytime soon? 🙄?

Question

I know I'm probably just stupid or oblivious when it comes to women but not all people can just easily find sex? Is finding sex easy because I never seem to find anyone or even anyone that likes me? Am I just too much of a nerd or just don't look hard enough?

Answer 1

Gwenhwyfar | 3.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Imma be blunt. For some guys it’s easier finding a hookup than a date (although even that’s hard in COVID). For others it’s the opposite. You’re in the latter category. I’ve actually given you advice about your target market and that advice still stands.

poneglyphs

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Yeah, I know just fed up with people just saying go find yourself a hookup it's just irritating :^/
Gwenhwyfar

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That is irritating
poneglyphs

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Yep, also they tell me try dating apps like don't you think I'm trying that already and only get girls with OF, scammers, or just bots? :^/
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Gwenhwyfar

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Most dating apps suck. I hear Bumble is ok.
poneglyphs

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I'm trying that and nothing so far and it's been like 3 months? I supposedly got matches but have pay to see them 🙄
Gwenhwyfar

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If I were you I’d be patient wait for COVID to end and con season to begin. That being said you gotta be zen. When you talk to a girl it’s gotta be cause you’re chillin and you just feel like talking to her, not cause you’re tryna hit on her.
poneglyphs

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Yeah, I see what you mean :^) honestly might have to wait till next year because most cons aren't going to be open? :^(
Gwenhwyfar

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Very true

Maybe you could join a Dungeons and Dragons group. That kind of overlaps with anime and video games. Again, you don’t wanna hit on girls, but sometimes relationships start.

Answer 2

poneglyphs

Yeah, I know just fed up with people just saying go find yourself a hookup it's just irritating :^/

Answer 3

Gwenhwyfar

That is irritating

Answer 4

poneglyphs

Yep, also they tell me try dating apps like don't you think I'm trying that already and only get girls with OF, scammers, or just bots? :^/

Answer 5

Gwenhwyfar

Most dating apps suck. I hear Bumble is ok.

Answer 6

poneglyphs

I'm trying that and nothing so far and it's been like 3 months? I supposedly got matches but have pay to see them 🙄

Answer 7

Gwenhwyfar

If I were you I’d be patient wait for COVID to end and con season to begin. That being said you gotta be zen. When you talk to a girl it’s gotta be cause you’re chillin and you just feel like talking to her, not cause you’re tryna hit on her.

Answer 8

poneglyphs

Yeah, I see what you mean :^) honestly might have to wait till next year because most cons aren't going to be open? :^(

Answer 9

Gwenhwyfar

Very true

Maybe you could join a Dungeons and Dragons group. That kind of overlaps with anime and video games. Again, you don’t wanna hit on girls, but sometimes relationships start.

Why do people say just find a hookup it's rather easy? Like I can barely get a date do you think I'm going to get a hookup anytime soon? 🙄?

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