How sub reciprocate what do Doms expect from a sub?

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I mean usually her hands are pushed down on sides or above by his hands and he is probably big and on top right? And then guys always say how they don’t want girl to be just still like dead fish and all so what do Doms expect? What sub is suppose to do? Just listening and reviving everything is boring? Then what she suppose to do? Is it ok if she’s inexperienced or little naive? ... I don’t know if I am able to explain well I am really too shy to write/ask this so bear with it and try to answer in non explicit language Please ☺️🙈

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Move away from any thought about sex, is the best start.

it’s not really about sex.

vanillas fuck and have sex, where one partner will likely be more dominating than the other.

It’s far deeper than simply having sex.

it is a very deep emotional link between two people.

through trust comes obedience.

that basically means there must be a huge amount of trust between both, especially the sub with the Dom.
in most Dom / sub relationships, subs are usually very independent, confident and from experience feisty and gobby lol.

a good collar sub actually runs the relationship, most have great imaginations and help build the role play.

For new subs, a lot comes down to the Dom to help but the best way is to introduce her or him to other experienced subs (we have Munches and other social stuff)

hope that helps, if you want more just let me know.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Complaining about 'dead fish' is usually not talking about a Dom/sub scenario.

What do doms want of their subs in situations where he's got her held in place, and is controlling her?

They want her to react. Talk or make noise. Respond to what he's doing.

To the extent doms want subs to take action, they typically will ask/instruct. You can be dom and have her give a bj, or ride, usually you're directing her when/how to to do it. But yeah, often the dom might be the active one, her job is to respond, obviously.

"Is it ok if she’s inexperienced or little naive?" Honestly i think most doms find that a turn on, so if anything, play it up. Ask questions or make comments highlighting it. "How will it fit?" "Where will the cum go?" "i don't know how to do it right" are all things most doms would find... really hot.

AustinMan · Answer

I want an eager and enthusiastic sub who can't get enough.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Subs are different and so are doms. They like different reactions.  You just have to find one you're compatible and comfortable with. - And most importantly, someone you trust.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

This is something only the guy in question can answer. Because everyone has different tastes and kinks and likes different stuff.

David92506 · Answer

From my experience, Doms are more physical. Dommes are more mental. The submissive just does what the Dom or Domme says.

rad___lad · Answer

I would love to answere any question you have. Just sent them to me in DM and I will be right at ya :))

kellytheman · Answer

Well I am like to be the submissive one myself but I usually tell her how good it feels and girate my hips hips with her hips. I also use a little dirty talk may be act I am trying to overpower them. Make them feel your powerless and they are in total control.

andy530 · Answer

It really is individual but I’m a dom ans I enjoy subs who use there submissive behaviors or reactions to show what they want

MrTaboo · Answer

As a Dom. It's up to the Dom. Everyone is different. I like mine obediant. And if she doesn't know what to do next, she asks "what would master want now?"

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