Guys, exclusive friends with benefits with a girl and all sexual needs met or random hookups?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Im met with this exact same dilemma at the moment.
I met this girl not long ago and we had sex, afterwards we both expressed that we are not intersted in a relationship but wouldn't mind keep having sex hpweber she wants it to be exclusive wich I'm having trouble distinguishing with a relationship.
Sure we don't do the relationship stuff but by being exclusive we are essentially taken and unavailable in case we met someone that maybe we wanna try dating.

So I don't know if I should accept this or turn her down and keep looking for random hooks.
(I do admit it's convenient to have all your sexual needs met like this, there are advantagesl)

[Anonymous]

A is preferable, but probably harder to find.
It's easier to have a pool of people where at any given time you can see 'who is down for X' then to find someone who basically wants everything you want, and ALSO wants to have the sort of relationship (whether its friends with benefits or a capital R Relationship) where you take accountability for trying to meet each other's needs and desires (either because sex drive is so high it's easy, or because you CARE and like the idea of satisfying each other).

[abc3643]

NEITHER!

My God, the fact that this is even a question illustrates what a shit level 21st Century society has become.

Dear Asteroid / Comet,
Please arrive soon!
Sincerely,
abc3643

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[Bricealan]

Random hook ups can very often be disappointing, for both parties because of it being 'random' and not knowing what she/he wants

[Born-for-sex]

Why do random hookups if you know you get someone off who wants you to?

[kellytheman]

I have had both but freinds with benefits is better because you know the person what they like and what you like, you have a better chance of havng sex, midnight booty calls happen more. Just make sure there are some rules or guidelines first before you decide to become freinds with benefits so feeling don't get involved and someone gets hurt.

[Stevefiveo]

What is the difference between a wife and an exclusive friends with benefits? Doesn't friends with benefits mean you can see other people?

[Asker]

No it means you don’t do the things of a relationship. A relationship involves way more than exclusive sex...

[Stevefiveo]

Oh, ok.

[ND4SPD31]

Only random hookups if my sexual needs weren’t being met or the sex wasn’t as good as I was anticipating.

[ND4SPD31]

Wouldn’t u want the same?

[Asker]

Yes I do but I’m going to propose this to a guy tonight and I wanted to see how many guys would prefer this. I don't know how guys think... like if they are hungry for new girls all the time and that excites them or if one girl who meets their needs is preferred

[ND4SPD31]

Ahh yeah every guy is different for sure. If she met my sexual needs and was pretty attractive, I’d b good with just her.

[Asker]

That’s good to know (:

[ND4SPD31]

Feel free to follow me or hit me up if u have more questions or whatever. 😎

[andy530]

Exclusive if all sexual needs are met

[Seppel]

I am into relationships