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Why does a person's sexual history matter so much, to where its a deal breaker sometimes?

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Ok so n my past i dated someone who nearly broke up with me because i told her i had been with 6 women sexually in my past. I was 27 at the time and she was 20. She felt like i, at 27, should be a virgin like she was. It just makes no sense to me. One i have never had unprotected sex, until i married my wife, Two, i have never had an STD, Period. I tested frequently when i was dating. So why would it matter. She also felt like masturbation was cheating, Looking at porn was cheating, Having conversations with the opposite sex, including family members was cheating..

Why do people care about this so much.. It seems to matter more to men than women for some reason. But it has never really mattered to me.. Unless she had been with like thousands, because she was an escort or something.. And its not the sex in that situation, its the reputation, i dont want that kind of thing following me around.
Why does a person's sexual history matter so much, to where its a deal breaker sometimes?
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