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Guys, what would you do if you went out with a trans unaware, who did not inform you?

Let’s assume They did not inform you, but you “discovered it” while on the date.
Politely tell them you are not into that
Vote A
Violently show them you are not into that
Vote B
Say, “what the hell... I’m horny!”
Vote C
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  • The biggest concern I'd have, is them not being upfront about it and basing a potential relationship off of a lie, isn't that bad.

    I do think I am kind of open to dating a 'trans-woman' and yeah, I don't think they're biologically female, but I don't care, even if they had a dick, lol, but probably than some weird fake-ass vagina that would just look weird.

    That being said, I'd ask them why they hid that and if I didn't think their reason was good enough, then I think I'd finish off the date.

  • I would definitely not take kindly to it. I would feel lied to. That is the kind of thing that I would need to know first.

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  • It depends on the situation. I might quite like them.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don't really go on dates with girls I'm just looking to screw. If I ask her on a date it's because I'm interested in a relationship, therefore if she tells me I'm trans, I'm bouncing ✌

  • Bisexual guy here, so if I was attracted to him or her before finding out that they had different plumbing than what I expected.

    My only issue would be if they don't like to use the genitals they have. Some people who are transgender don't want to use their genitals sexually. And I'm gonna want to put my mouth on that. So if they have qualms about it we are not a good match. Just like I would not be a good match with anyone who is asexual.

  • I Highly advise that the trans boys and girls be upfront from the beginning about his\her true gender, especially if the downstairs is still the other gender.
    I know of a few t-girls that have been beat up or even lost their lives because they did not say anything.
    Remember, when men get horned up and expectations are running high, the testosterone is flowing, he might not be too happy that his date, he thought was a Girl is actually a gUrl!

  • I'd tell them that they should have informed me beforehand

  • None of the above. I wouldn't react at all. My first/only thought would probably be "Oh, okay" and then we'd continue with our date

    • You are so woke! 👏👏👏👏

    • I'm not saying it to be woke or whatever, I just genuinely do not care. I've dated trans people before, and I'd do it again. I dated a trans person who didn't outright tell me but just kept dropping hints until I figured it out while we were texting. And in that scenario my reaction actually was "Oh, okay," and then the conversation continued. It might surprise me for a second if I didn't already know or suspect they were trans, but that's about it. I understand why most people want/need that disclosure early on when they start dating someone, and I even understand why they might feel angry or lied to if that disclosure comes a little late, but I genuinely am fine with whatever.

  • I’ll give you a little point of view, 20 years ago my body started doing things I’ve seen before!
    And every time they ended in excruciating painful deaths! So if you had a prognosis of a short
    Time to live, would you try everything life has to offer or hide?
    It looked like I had cancer but luckily it wasn’t. Unfortunately now I do have cancer. And I’ve
    Given a blow job because it is part of my bucket list as is jumping out a plane!
    Moral here is life is short and precious don’t waste it waiting for tomorrow, tomorrow may never
    Come!

  • Just leave is what id do

  • Finish the date and say goodbye

  • Depends how i discovered it

    • Ok... two different ways- 1. You started to notice features that made you determine manhood- like an Adam’s apple as big as her balls (joking- a bulge or large Adam’s apple) Or- 2- You start to fool around and discover man junk.

    • What if they are fully transgendered with full vagina?

  • I don't mind. It wouldn't matter whether or not I was horny. I would only have an issue if they were FTM. Then I would tell them I'm not interested.

  • She have to be passable to start with.

  • i run away from there

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