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Well the more you drive a stick shift vehicle the better you can take those hills lol
I agree many partners doesn't automatically give you skills and quality. But if you are focused on being a good lover, having different lovers will give you more experience with the wide variety of preferences and kinks people have. Not everyone does it the same or wants the same things, so having just one single partner can limit your knowledge. Not bashing on having just one partner, and I completely agree with your final statement, which applies regardless of # of lovers.
the metaphor about a stick shift can be expanded to illustrate. Learning to drive a stick shift, various types of street bikes in different engine classes, stick vs. automatic, SUV, semis, formula one, stock race cars, or heavy equipment like a DC-10 or smaller stuff like a riding lawnmower or Bobcat. Dirtbikes, etc, etc. Not everyone is built the same, either (haha the DC-10 made me think of heavy people).
@zeitgeist057 Re-read my answer because I said nothing about having one partner/a limited number of. I just said, when it comes to being good in bed, you can't rely solely on numbers.
lol reread my answer bc I said " I agree with you... I completely agree...". i. e. I'm not countering anything you've said, just supplementing it with my perspective. Like I said, I think you've nailed it with your last sentence.
@zeitgeist057 and I agree with you :)) all is good.
Being openminded I think is a very good point... since their really isn't any experience there. And having a few drinks before hand doesn't hurt either lol
You're wrong but I do agree with most of it. But having sex with different people... Some like certain things and some like other things. You cannot have sex with one person and then say you are good in bed. One girl may like to be pounded aimlessly and another doesn't and likes another way. Talking to the girl and figuring out what she likes is better. Awareness and caring. Over time you may have experienced many different type of women and what they like. Making you a pro in a sense but truly you can never really say you a good in bed unless you are referring to just 1 woman or the woman you already had.
@TrainingDay and I disagree with you... Every person is different and gets off on different things, fucking twenty females won't make you an expert on how to please the 21st, if she has different desires kinks, get to know the person you having sex with at that time, get to know them intimately inside and out, and that's when truly great sex happens, 🤷🏼♀️
@Brainsbeforebeauty totally agree with youGreat theoryBecomes your fan
I agree with both of you to An extent. You can have many or a single partner and be either. a great lover, or. a crappy one. I don't think it has as much to do with number of partners as it does with how much focus, effort, nd passion you bring to the activity. Much like the rest of life. I do think having a wide variety of lovers has the POTENTIaL to give you more experience nd flexibility as well as awareness of the uniqueness of each individual. You could become. a "specialist " in just one person, but then be totally clueless if you ended up with. a new partner. You can also have sex with dozens of people nd still be totally clueless how to please another person.
@zeitgeist057 well yeah it's a relearning process with each different partner...
Not necessarily a bad thing. I enjoy meeting and learning about new people; both in and out of the bedroom. I'm a big fan of widening my perspective and experiences, gathering more information as I travel along this path.
@zeitgeist057 👍👍 me personally, I rather have that one quality partner, inside the bedroom and out...
Totally understandable, lots of people are like that, and it's a concept that is promoted by our society so there is a lot of support for it.
For me, I actually get a bit sad imagining if I chose a path like that and thinking about all the amazing connections I have with so many incredible, beautiful, and unique people. My life feels so rich with love and perspective. If I had to abandon all but one, I feel my heart break a little.
@zeitgeist057 the thinking the grass is always greener on the other side... Thinking there's always better instead of setting the treasure you already have. But different strokes for different folks. We all have different perceptions. And as long as you not stringing people along, or pretending feelings you don't have to get sex from women, "do you"👍
I think you might be presuming something there if you're saying that "grass is greener" is my perspective, as it's not a "abandon this side of the fence for the other side" approach for me. I absolutely value and treasure people individually, and I give two shits about "getting laid", especially with someone I feel nothing for. I would much rather masturbate than waste my time and energy trying to deceive someone into... jeez it's so crazy actually I can't even use the same language you are using. We're in totally different paradigms. I was going to point this paradigm shift out earlier, the nuance of when you said "I'd rather have that one quality partner..." The subtext of that being a common theme in monogamous perspective: that there is an inverse correlation between quality and quantity. Which at its core is an expression that love is a limited resource, rather than an abundant energy that flows more generously the more generous you are with it. Now it's about the idea that one person is trying to "get sex" from another. Again with the ideation of sex and/or love as a resource rather than an expression of mutual affection or acceptance and understanding.Does that make sense? Understanding, appreciating and adoring one person does not limit my ability to understand, appreciate, and adore others. In fact, I posit that it enhances said abilities.
Not that the concepts you describe are foreign to me, I live in the same culture you do. It's just problematic to discussion when there are so many underlying assumptions that I do not accept as universal truths.
The grass isn't greener on the other side... it's greener where you water it. So I would imagine two people who like to water their grass will do just fine.
Congrats!!! That’s awesome!
Thank you! I hope your weekend is off to a great start.
Oh shit... I wish i had troll spray. Bahahahahahahahaa
Good points I agree!
Ha Ha Ha
Thought you might like that "line", if you were around for the show.
... ain't difficult beside your tongue and fingers being numb of the duration 😄
Oh lol.By the way communication is also very important. You as man/woman know your body very well and so just tell your partner what you like.
Sounds like he was a bit of a jerk. I'd say being good is really about training someone. Sure skills you learn may or may not work with the next person. Been my experience that one girl would tell me I was awesome and hit me up for friends with benefits constantly. While another would say I wasn't doing anything for her, even though I did the exact same thing with both of them. Now maybe she had some really super awesome sex from before that almost no one could match, who knows.That is when I figured it out, that the best sex is when 'both' parties are willing to train the other. I also seem to think that men are less receptive to being trained, seems like it bugs their ego or something.
I haven't' seen a Hustler in ages... those were our porn back in the day. The kids have no idea how good they have it. lol
They also don't know the sacrifices the editor made too protect their freedom if speech, with his censorship sucks big Richard campaign.
I want to chat you in private
@Shivraj12s About what? Something general:? Ask away.
Sorry I feel shy hereBut not forcing you
Lol of course
and may I add, talk about what you both like
Well said. The girl who I lost my virginity to eons ago... we ended up dating for 5+ years and it was such an awesome way to get into all sorts of fun interests and kinky stuff :)
Does that mean you believe in one sex partner for life or the much more common serial monogamy?
I am just saying having bunch of sexual partners won't make you good in bed ( personal opinion)
Whatever you are on... slide some over lol
Lol he gave the exact advice of how to be bad in bed, "Just have to accept not everyone likes your style."
Still so much better than being fake also because not everybody likes fake. What would your advice be? Because i can also say not everyone likes your style despite where you get it from
But just like asking how does one become a good cook without letting a bunch of people taste your food. You can follow cookbooks, sure. Just like being a porn junkie
lmao i like how your comment is right next too @cth96190 who said the opposite.
Your both 60+ by the way
I know from a video where a virgin nerd does it with Mia khalifa... He was do awkward n worried about impressing her... That he ended up doing the opposite of impressing herDon't give a fuck about the girl guys, aslong as you enjoyed it yourself... fuck her point of view, forget about it
Sex isn't a competition. It's a pleasure. Like eating food