POSITIVE Pregnancy Test But Boyfriend is NOT READY? HELP?

Question

Im 22 years old and my boyfriend is 27 years old. We've been together for 5 years and we've definitely wanted to have kids during our first 3 years of being together. Then, our plans changed.
We thought it would be best to have children when we have a place and financially stable.
Currently, we live apart in different states. We met a few weeks ago as usually we visit each other every month or so. We had unprotected sex during this time.
I was sure that I wasn't near my ovulating window which is why we had unprotected sex. Unfortunately, I was actually ovulating at that time and didn't know until I checked my period app and I realized so.
He bought me a Plan B to take just in case but I didn't take it since I have some reactions to birth control. And I assured him that Ill take pregnancy tests to make sure. The results were negative until yesterday...
I took a pregnancy test and it came out positive.
I took several more and it all came out positive.
I told him about it and showed him the tests. However, he's in shock and he doesn't want to have the baby because we aren't living together yet which leads him to say im not ready.

I honestly dont know what to do or how to feel because I want to actually have this baby but I dont feel comfortable knowing my partner is not ready yet. Advice please?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

The fact that he doesn’t want to have his baby just shows he is a total piece of shit , Do not have an abortion you will regret the rest of
Your life knowing you killed your baby , You need to tell him you are keeping the baby and to man the fuck up , It takes 2 to make a baby if he didn’t want you pregnant then his dumb ass should of wore a condom , Having a baby can be scary especially if you feel you aren’t prepared but trust me things will work out , your child is going
To be the best love you ever received on this earth , As for your boyfriend , his loss if he doesn’t want to be a part of his child’s life , Your boyfriend might just be scared as well but word advice things will work out don’t kill your baby

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It's too late for your "readiness" to really be a factor. Ready or not, you (the two of you) are pregnant. It's time to start making grown-up decisions - less about what you WANT and more about what you NEED to do.

loves2learn · Accepted Answer

Do not terminate the pregnancy because HE is not ready. You need to dig deep inside yourself and decide what you want to do and consider how YOU would feel if you terminated. You’ve been together for 5 years. You’re 22. If it were me I would be keeping the baby for sure.

DrunkAss · Answer

I like the shotgun wedding. You can get ready after. Besides, who's ever really ready?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

What are your potential options? Make a list.

exitseven · Answer

Like it or not the baby is coming. He needs to get with the program

Browneye57 · Answer

Raise it.  Adopt it out. But please, don't murder your unborn child.  And don't be fucking around without BC.

Pete671 · Answer

If he's not ready after 5 years together he never will be,,,

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Ha! You planned this, pure and simple.

JamieLoves · Answer

LOL.. you didn’t take precautions? No, protection? Then you deserve it. Welcome to motherhood mommy! Or are you going to kill the kid? There goes your life.. the next 20 years will be you raising a kid and no fun for you.. That's if it even happened. You’re anonymous, do I think that you’re full of shit!