Have you ever had or have a partner with low sex drive?

My girlfriend's sex drive is very low.

If yes, how do you manage?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, Former husband. He was depressed and I think that was also just the way he was, but I didn't find out until later.
    There's really not much you can do if you're an 8 and she's a 2.
    You can negotiate some. If you want sex daily and she only wants it every two weeks, you'll likely be able to manage once or twice a week. But I'd say that's about it.
    Otherwise, if this is a big deal to you, find a partner more suited to your mutual sex drives.

  • I don't know honestly I've been with my boyfriend for six months now. He's always super sweet buys me chocolates and flowers constantly, holds doors open for me, and he always treats me nice. But he hasn't brought up sex yet, and I wonder about that. I'd say depending on it wait for it to happen naturally or talk to her about it in a polite way of course don't sound pushy or forceful. Hear her out.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes in the past , what you are experiencing is not uncommon , on average the female sex drive is significantly lower than the male , T levels are why. Glad my Male Curse has faded greatly.

    • Ohh.. Yeah we are long distance and even if I initiate sexting, she'll skip the topic 😑

    • Seems you will be happier ending it , I get the impression she is self centred & absorbed , am I right?

    • Yes. You're absolutely right

  • How long have you been together? Has it always been that way? Why are you still together? Have you asked her about it?

    • We've been in relationship for an year. It's a LDR. We both are virgins and are planning to have sex after marriage. We meet once or twice in a month for short time. We've made out 3,4 times. We used to sext sometimes. But mostly, she skip the topic. She never flirted or never sent seductive text to me

    • So you have never met? I hope you are planning to spend considerable time together before marrying. If you aren't going to have sex, you better talk about it extensively -- desires and expectations, including desired frequency, activities, etc. Of course you need to talk about other expectations as well.

    • It would seem to me she skips the topic because she doesn't want to be tempted to lose her virginity, don't you think? Why talk about it if you aren't going to do it? Why flirt or send seductive messages? What's the point? As slatybartfast says, you need to spend considerable time together in PERSON before marriage to find out if you're suited to each other. This is an unknown equation at this point in time. Don't keep it that way.

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  • Nope

  • Yes, my first girlfriend.
    Not to well, she frustrate me very much and when i whas going home become very angry and frustrated because she whas teasing me all the time and ask me to whit.

  • Ywah my current girlfriend and if works cause I also have a low sex drive

  • Yes I have. I usually cheat.

  • Yes... and it sucks ! I dumped her.

  • My girl never wants sex. I use a lot of porn and wanking and when it gets too much I cheat

    • Same situation here

  • No all my bfs had super high drives