Really insightful breakdown.
Mhm Sorry I didn’t necessarily answer the question lolOk so Sexual Nature in StaringWhen I stare at the girl I like, Sort of. It’s me checking her out. Staring at her butt, Chest, whatever.. So.. I guess it depends on what you’re staring at. If you’re staring at her butt, Yeah sexual If you’re staring her in the faceIt’s because she’s cute but don’t stare at the face too much that’s a little weird
No, you answered perfectly the first time.
That explains a lot. Thanks. Gonna level up my underwear game now. 😐
Won't work. We can see through all known fabrics.
🤣 Dude man come on. Answer the question!
Well for me personally it is sometimes sexual as I am checking a woman out. Also I am not good with faces and if I see someone that looks familiar I made look at her intensely to try and remember who she is and where I've seen her before. In other words, sometimes it's sexual other times it's not.
Ok, you are acquainted with her and make it a point of staring into her eyes at least once every day you see her.
Some times, though I try to be subtle about it.
No, like, I mean what would be your motivation to not be subtle about it and do it on a consistent basis.
I suppose it would be my way of letting her know that she has my attention and that I find her interesting. And I would hope that our eyes meet and lock on to each other for a while and than it turns to a conversation and eventually something more.
While seeing through her clothing... of course.
Absolutely. Though it is a bit awkward for me because if and when I am with a woman and Clothes are being stripped I have fake being surprise by her naked form.
🤦♀️🤯 my one good friend told me same thing I thought he is kidding... I need to level up my undergrads 😑 .
@reea23 you do you really really do LOL
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Yes, I agree. For shyer types a strong sexual desire comes when there is an intense liking.
Yes. It's an invitation in this case. See I had approached him first to stop his weird staring. Not currently available. The interaction caused him some inner turmoil from his body language. Also, all his friends and everyone associated with him would stare at me and watch all my comings and goings and it was evident that there was a MASSIVE information gathering operation going onSo I shut down. Then when enough was enough, I tried to speak with him and he ran away from me. No word of a lie ran away like terrified. So I was like uh uh. Then I had to go over tonhim for a balid reasin one day and he was smiling and normal. I was very apprehensive because he was being weIrd AF previously.Now he does all this peacocking and eye contact.
Yeah, it doesn't always go well... but at least you know now.
Yessir! Yeah it's an art and the deoths of what can be said is infinite.
@Coulis I also missed of predatory, when I am looking and searching and I see something i want, my eyes apparently change, pupils etc and you move in to Hunter mode.
This is a cool take.
@Coulis I think women need to trust their confidence, or have some that believe in them, and want to help them be the best of whatever they want to be!! I have so many friends that are women, and they could just do AMAZING things, but I think they lack the confidence, or maybe are afraid that some of the douch-bags, of my gender will judge them, and sabotage them, so they don't try!If there is a glass ceiling, it is JUST GLASS, and easy to BREAK!! :)
I think all people need to care less about people's opinion and just keep the eyes on the prize they want. In my experience, confident women who get the douchbaggy backlash are secretly admired and somewhat envied for having more proverbial balls then them.
@Coulis Very well said!! Brushing on what I meant, but more direct, and real!
What the what? Ok I'll be really careful. But seriously though... what are you talking about?
Alriiiiggght. Thisbis like a consistent thing that happens in a basically daily basis.
Then u know, u should just fuck him. If it's the same guy, I don't know if u mean in general.
If they do it everyday they see the person?
Is the contact more of a friendly or intense? Scowl or happy, sexy or sad lol
Pgfft. It's so hard to describe. It's piercing yet open.
Just ignore the person. That’s what i did with the EX. They get the hint
Oh ok. So that's bad? I quite like it, actually.
Kinda thought you did. Generally when people post of flirtations it’s a sign on both behalf’s.
We all do it, spice of life
Ok. But when a guy does it.
I've done that when im mad at a girl lol I've done to two separate girls.I've also looked deep into a girls eyes when i wanted her to like me, she eventually did like me.Another time i looked into a beautiful blonde blue eyes and stoppe her in the street to look at each other for 30secs lol..It depends on circumstance.From experience, if a guy or girl does this when they first lay eyes on you.. they are attracted to you.Theyve lost all their inhibitions and dont care about being caught they want you to know.
And repeatedly doing it?
Many days yes.
And how do you respond to him? Do you even smile, look at him?
Hold it. He has a asking type of expeession on his face. No smile. Almost feel loke his checki g in with me. It's different.
He wants the sex. You want to open your legs?
No, not at this time. So you are saying don't bither if I want more than something casual.
i honestly dont know but it's pheromone based attraction. you're both biologically signalling to each other that you're a match.
So positive vibes then.
I go that route.. in most cases with out oversexaulised imagery..Pretty sure that what separates the gents from the pervs
I guess that's the goal.
Indeed! That's a nice thought.
Can guys stare lovingly with sex separate?
I can't speak for other guys but I have. Though intimacy is usually integral in any romantic relationship. My grandparents were 93 and 88 and still staring lovingly into each other's eyes. My ex girlfriend's mother used to gaze affectionately into my eyes and I don't think it was sexual. She just liked me around and wanted me to marry her daughter. I was willing but she was not. I've never gazed lovingly into anyone else's eyes among humans but I have looked at pets with affection. If I had children I could see myself looking lovingly into their eyes.
Interesting. You were willing to marry her daughter but never gazed lovingly at her.
The daughter I mean.
Pure annoyance. Oooh. Watch out. Thanks. Thanks was really clear.
But re the queation he is actually making a point to look at the woman more specifically in her eyes.
@warrenstone thanks man. I reported it but nada. It's a trash response.
Creepy as it may sound, but that's exactly how the moment is. I'm sure women appreciate the honesty.
That wasn't the nature of the question. @Darknut
Well I misconstrued what was being asked.
You did. You really did but you know what... it's ok. Thanks for answering!
Well OK. Ms, I really didn't mean to offend you honestly. Have a nice afternoon you seem like a really sweet and kind lady
I respect you taking the time to say that. Thanks so much
Well it was the most respectful thing that needed to be said.
@Darknut you are a stand up guy. 👍🏻
@loves2learn well I try not be invasive and offer a good Ole country boy opinion but I know when to quit with it too. I misconstrued it but luckily the sweet lady seen past my misjudgement.
@Darknut she is sweet and clearly you are too. :)
Many instances over a prolonged period of time. Head titlted somewhat curious simewhat confessing at times just intense.
Sounds like he could be planning something on you, could be a crime, could be a sexy fantasy, but could be rape, etc. 🤔
I think he's trying to get a read on me and invite me to himself. But yes, anything is possible.
Well then. There's no doubt in this situation
A romantic kiss or a hookup kiss?
A romantic one indeed
It's neither actually.
Okay then he is good at hiding his feelings or he doesn't have any towards you. Maybe he's just curious.
Hiding and curious.
Hm I wonder why he's curious.
Playing cards close to the chest. Can't make heads or tails of me. Not that I play games but the situation is delicate and my plans on him are bigger than his plans on me. He just doesn't know it...
Ooh well hopefully it goes well
This is quite likely. He has to be patient.
Hmm don’t play hard to get such a childish move if you like him just give him the green light already
No no there's is no child's play going on. LOL. It's very adult.
Oh no. This happens everyday and there is no mistaking it. It's whether they are staring, it's what they are trying to communicate.
*It's not whether
Ah... well then he might just genuinely not like you. Or at least just not get a good vibe about you.
So then why does he constantly appear the moment Im around. Gaze at me when I'm not not looking and generally draw attention to himself.
I don't have enough information to know
Hmm. Is that the stare I'm getting.
Doubt it. You can easily tell that. I just thought you wanted to know reasons men stare.
It is a i t but there are reasons.
What does “a i t” mean? I can picture a guy doing that I’m cringing so damn hard. Harder than Hideyoshi pounded Kavliaris.
This is a very genral statement but it is true.
i made it general like that on purpose. sort of a template for other simular questions that are being repeatedly asked daily. hoping at least some will make that connection and apply it so they can move on to a hopwfully better question.
Well given thatbitnis so ge eral, it likely won't satisfy the specific case-by-case info a lot of people seek. Thanks for taking the time to answer!
This doesn't make sense to me and not getting the profanity.
"prophanity", lol.It should be easy to understand.You should know that you do not only stare sexually and therefore neither do others.A fixed stare is an attempt at reading the facial expressions or a way to grab attention.I do it literally every time I do groceries while waiting for the password cue if I don't feel free to press enter on their stead.I do this at public transport, trying to figure out who's gonna leave early so I can get the seat, lol! (Basically searching for anxiousness or anticipation that would disclose that their stop is near.)
This answer is as straightforward as an intense stare. Nice! Also, how should one respond?
If you like him, return the stare and smile.
Don't want to get in over my head if it's as you say, LOL.
No doubt. To what degree though?
I will. Not yet.
Good ! That what you need to do.
You understand I had to dislike this, right?
No I don’t I’m a hunter it’s what we do
Do you know another way to catch a deer or a rabbit
Excuse me. @kevyhanma Don't Insult my commenters. You totally posted this ambigouously to make people think anything you look at like that you want to kill. I e people.
That could also mean food Or pedophiles I feel like you took it the wrong way tbh
No. There is no relationship. Mildly acquainted. From your answer this is the behaviour of someone in pursuit of another.
Thanks for taking this so seriously.
Oh yeah anytime. 😋
Yes, it can be but I think there's more coldness. Also, the rest of the body language points to flirting. I
Is that the new term for it? LOL
Why would you want to figure out a girl?
I'd rather not say :)
Oh ow you BETTER say. So it's very sexual then. Hyper sexual. How do I get into her panties NOW!
" Can she take it rough or no "Something like that...
LOL. I think it could be. But maybe it's just you...
Your "secret" is safe with me.
Of course, not minding the others whos gonna think Im a creep :)
I don't think you're a creep. Maybe some women look at men wondering if they like it rough too.
Hmmmmmm now thats interesting.
If you really want to know what’s going on, look EVERYWHERE. Sometimes, people aren’t the threat. Most of the time though. Heads down, legs closed, eyes open, ears listening, and Hunkin Ragor. WHAT DA HELL HAPPENED TO MA SWAMP?
What? The photo?
Ok so are you here to answer the question? Sorry the eye isn't adult enough for you.
sry It was a little confusing why you would put a little boys eye instead of a man since you're talking about men... I think
Well didn't seem to throw anyone else off. The question about intense eye contact and it was an upclose photo hence communicating intense focus of the eyes.
I try not to do that I assume women get creeped out.
That's fair. Some may. Some may not. You never kno-OW 😀
And that's why none shall get.
@anylolone I get some lolI'm just not a creep I'm smooth in my technique
That's a nice thought and a secret hope.
Oh no indeed! I am getting a divorce but not because of this guy. I love to see people in your age group posting such advice. 👑
I've been this site for a long time and seeing this question just made me remember a previous one of yours and after reading other replies doing 1+1=2 I just stated what seemed obvious to me.
*in this site
Yes, actually re reading through the site it was quite disturbing how many people jist jump i to an affair because they have an attraction to someone. In my case, we both actually ran away from each other. It's been very torturous but the thing to do. I threw myself into my marriage because it isn't uncommon for inconvenient crushes to happen. Sadly, in my case, my husband rejected the idea of really strengthening our connection. An issue that actually been years long that I was the only one really trying to remedy. But I never pressed the issue because the backlash wasn't worth dealing with.Because this is serious I pushed even harder and really dug deep. It opened up a whole other can of worms and once we got to the heart of the issue it was even worse than I could have ever imagined.Ready to be alone and don't have my future pinned on anyone.
I understood your situation from your previous questions, that's why I told you to get divorced before anything.And another thing.. it might be just me being weird but when a guy likes a girl he's the only one that's staring, he doesn't set up his mates to stare at the girl. I mean if he just liked you he would have just approached you, what is he going to with the information he's getting from others? it's not like he needs any extra info other than that you're married. I feel like there's some hidden reason behind all that spying.
I can answer that. Not in North America so culturally it isn't so weird here to stare and try to figure out a person or get info about them indirectly. Not uncommon for people to work together so I think they were put on the task of watching my every move to see how I act IRL.The staring has stopped. And a weird thing happened. One of his colleagues would say hi to me and I would just respond. Now acts like he doesn't see me. As if he were told not to speak to me.
Well then if those things are culturally okay then what they're doing is beyond my understanding. And I don't want to kill any more brain cells trying to think out what's up with his colleague. I'll just be telling you to be careful because bad things happen sometimes.
Thanks for answering!
Cool. I would love for you to elaborate and possibly when it may be something else.
Thanks love 🥰
So no then. It isn't always.
Not always but It Does happen
I think there is akqays a predatory element re men towards women. It doesn't make me scared.
Of course, there's the same element on you.
@anylolone Oh for sure. I thunk women are like hawks and men are like wolves.
ah yes women are no chance vs my predatory tickles hugs and kisses
I love your paranoia.
I can help you with this. Often times, I get into a mood where I'm just very comfortable. I feel very secure and flexible and unashamed of anything. In such moods, I often make intense eye contact with women. It can lead to something sexual, but I don't actually have sex on my mind when doing this. I'm just living in the moment. I also tend to touch women more, usually on the shoulder/arm.
@Omega_brie This very insightful. It's more about feeling comfortable to increase or establish a connection.
And with a head tilt?
Trying to figure you out ans flirt
Why would a guy want to figure out a girl?
Because her mind is one of the most attractive parts of a girl
This is so true!
Care to elaborate?
Sure. People make extended eye contact for many reasons including sexual interest, anger, or thinking you are someone else. You really can't infer much from the eye contact alone.
Don't need any other answers now.