Tips on how I can get over my wife’s sexual history?

[Anonymous]

Okay my wife has been with 25 guys before me and she is the only girl that I have ever had sex with. I should mention that there is zero issue with our sex life, I mean we have AMAZING sex. We have sex every single day, with us having sex around twice and sometimes even three times a day, we even have sex around 6 times a day, sometimes even more on Saturdays and Sunday’s. We also have an amazing relationship outside of sex. I mean we love each other’s companies, we love watching tv together, going on dates and going for walks together. I love her so much and she loves me, there is just one problem and that is my wife’s sexual history. My wife lost her virginity at 15 and I lost mine at 20 to her. I first meet my wife during our freshman year of college in the fall of 2010 and we didn’t become official until November of 2011 and we didn’t have sex until the start of second second semester in our sophomore year of college in late January of 2012. Now during that period of time from the start of our freshman year and until we became official in November of 2011 during our sophomore year my wife had sex with 20 guys. We lived in the same floor and she had sex with a lot of guys from our floor so I would constantly hear from other guys their stories of having sex with her and I would see countless guys leave her dorm room at all times. I remember one time I had walked past her dorm room and heard her having sex with a guy, I even walked in on her having sex with a guy when she forgot that I was tutoring her for an upcoming test in one of her classes. I mean let me just state that I have zero issues satisfying her, my dick is actually big i just never got a chance to use it before her because of crippling social anxiety when it comes to women, I mean I make her scream, squirt and shake and I give her multiple orgasms. But despite all of this I still feel so intimidated by her very long sexual history, any tips on how I can get over her sexual history.

[CallMeDave]

The past is the past and can't be changed. What's important now is the present and the future. It sounds like the two of you are very happy together. Focus on that. Most people do not have a relationship as good as you say yours is, so I really think you need to focus on appreciating what you have and not worry about what happened before you got to this point. It would be really a shame to mess up a good relationship by thinking about things from the past rather than what you have now and what the future can be.

A lot of people have things in their past that their current partner probably doesn't really like. If you're only going to date people with perfect pasts, you're probably not going to date very much if at all.

You've just got to avoid thinking about the past as much as possible and concentrate on the wonderful relationship you have now. If you find yourself thinking about her past, just remind yourself how happy you are with her and how good your sex life is and start thinking about something fun you're going to do with her in the future. Don't let your brain focus on things that you don't like when you have lots of things you do like that you can focus on.

[Andres77]

If you love her... just let it go.
You can't change the past.
If she had so many guys and she chose you... YOU WON!
don't tell her that the first place gold medal you won from her isn't good enough.
You better just drop it before she drops you.
Focus on your future together.
Stop looking at the past, you're not going that way.

[Screenwriter]

Who is your wife with? You.
Does she bring up the other guys TO you? Oh, she doesn't.
That's because they're not important. YOU are.
Stop dwelling on some college fling. If you're with an amazing person, consider that she sowed her wild oats and she's done.
You need to be done with this obsession about men she cares nothing about.

[Aphrodite801]

Not reading all that, why date her if you were an insecure little twat? Sad case.

[turnpost]

Its because the girl is for the streets?

[Chris2343]

You knew she was a promiscuous woman and you took the chance on marrying her.
You said it yourself that you have a big dick and you two have a great sex life.
I'm not really sure what the problem is?

[Iron_Man]

And you didn’t know all this stuff before you got married?

[MountAverage]

I have you considered going to therapy for your insecurity issues?

[turnpost]

God this chat needs help holy crap

[bullforcucks]

Think of it as practice for you.

[Anonymous]

My guess is that you lost your virginity in high school

[Anonymous]

How long have you been married to her