Is it odd for a woman to not have an active sex drive?

Mid twenties, hasn’t had sex in 3+ years and does not masturbate/have the urge to. I just feel it’s because I haven’t met the right person..
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  • Ignore these people your fine. The problem is is a simple fact of what is the most important thing in your life? Fornicating in your life? Masturbating when you shouldn't? being used by a man? Or these days anybody? Or truly love somebody?

    Unless you're going through a lot of stress or medical condition that is nothing for you to really do. It's personally nobody else's business but your own and you shouldn't be advertising this online. This is something you need to consult with a doctor if you're that concerned. Not a public forum like this when people are going to judge you based on what their own opinion is of you. Because in a hyper-sexualized society you should already understand what the answer is going to be.

    Having a sex drive or not means what? Is sex really that important? You have to decide that. Because it was so important you wouldn't be sexless with 3 years. And it is coming from somebody who was a virgin and never had that had sex at all. I know for a fact that it is not my place to be having sex outside of marriage, not to be masturbating, lusting after anybody, let alone get myself involved with somebody who does something that I don't agree with. I know to wait for marriage to have sex in to be with a person who's going to love me and truly cherish me and desire a family and to do that for God not just for ourselves. At the same time I understand that there is no logical reason for me to personally have sex when I don't necessarily have to.

    Your main concern should be your personal health, as well as your sexual health. As long as you are not sick with STDs or other problems, then don't worry about stuff like that. You're getting older, things come and go, but it's been a few years, so you're not going to suddenly feel like that all the time even if you're active. Maybe you naturally don't have much of a drive and that's fine that's just you. Some can control it like myself, and there are those that can't, and there are those that learn to deal with it because they know they can't afford to, especially unmarried. So again I say it depends solely on what's the most important to you.

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  • Why do you even think that it is somehow not just You, at this point, in life? Do you imagine you need to be in another place, a place with a lot more sex?
    Sex is just a TINY part of a good relationship!!
    Society, and what others think, and are doing, seem to make some of us feel like we are somehow wrong, or 'defective' or just 'alone'.
    You feel, what YOU feel, and if you don't have that sex drive, like others, doesn't mean that there is anything 'wrong' with you, but that you are just different, and Uniquely YOU!!
    I like the unique ones, and the ones that CHOOSE to be who they really are!!

  • TBH I don't believe in asexual. Hence if you're medically healthy, you should have a normal sex drive, at least feel horny once or twice a week.

    Hence my conclusion is, you may have some kind of deficiency. Ask a medical professional and perhaps what you need is a testosterone boost.

    And out of sincerity, I suggest you get a check up sooner because at this age, you should be engaging in a rich sex life.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You might be asexual and that’s completely normal

  • To have no sexual urges at all? No, that’s not healthy. Do you know why? Like are you having regular periods?

  • its like u should at least imagine getting fucked with right person and masterbate

  • See your obgyn. You should have some sex drive but if you have none what so ever you might have a hormone issue. Second are your periods normal and regular? If they aren’t talk to your doctor.

  • IRL, yes
    On GAG, no

  • yes because women normally always have opportunities for sex